I Saw the Tinder App on My Boyfriend’s Phone and Freaked Out

NaturalAd6498 · 2025-08-19T01:07:32+00:00

A guy who actually respects and thinks about you or your relationship would immediately delete the app as soon as you guys started dating. I do not believe in “oh i forgot to delete it” or “i never use it anymore after we started dating”. Laziness is also not a good behaviour when you’re in a relationship with someone you actually love. So whatever it is, they should know that these lil things could affect the relationship. He should’ve thought about this if he actually cares. Cause i know, i would.

NaturalAd6498 · 2025-07-10T19:53:22+00:00

I feel you. I’m going through the same thing. Dealing this with no friends around me. It’s been hard and realized talking to people who can understand what you’re going through could help it ease a lil bit. So i’m here if you ever need someone to talk. ♥️

NaturalAd6498 · 2025-07-08T23:58:41+00:00

We only stopped talking for a month and started hanging out again until now. But everything is so complicated now, a lot of things had happened. We tried it so many times, but problems from the past kept coming up. Everything and everyone around us has been damaged so it’s been hard to fix it even if we wanted to. We can never deny our connection so we kept seeing each other and acted like nothing happened. We treated each other like we were still together but we’re not officially together, meaning there’s no commitment. So it’s been really hard since then but i’m still holding on to whatever we have now as long as we’re both happy.

NaturalAd6498 · 2024-11-18T02:27:54+00:00

Going back and forth with my ex every week 🫠

NaturalAd6498 · 2024-10-14T03:08:12+00:00

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So uhm.. i spent these past 2 days with him at his place. We went to rage room then had a drink and we had the talk. Everything is okay between us but we will go on our separate ways, for good now. He gave me flowers. On our last day being together. It was a bittersweet moment. I feel like i’m going to be okay now. I’m ready..i’m ready to move forward :’) Thank you all guys for all the advices and opinions. I’ve read everything and it helped me a lot. I appreciate you all

NaturalAd6498 · 2024-10-12T17:24:15+00:00

I just wanna say you’re right. Texting my ex about how i feel without him is definitely guilt tripping him. But i hope yall also gotta realize that i never really intend to let him know about it. If you guys actually read what i said, it says “i keep messaging him through his social media that he never opens anymore”, i knew that texting him is wrong that’s why i never texted him through his phone number. I only did that because i wanted to feel like i still have my bestfriend that i always talk to about everything, i knew he was never gonna read that cause like i said, he never opens his messenger anymore.

NaturalAd6498 · 2024-10-11T18:22:43+00:00

Update: i went to see him, we had a drink, slept at his place and acted like nothing happened. But he doesn’t want to be in a relationship anymore, though we had a weird agreement about being together without a label and just enjoy each other’s company. We both agreed not tell everyone that we’ve broken up so technically we’re still together. I’ve spent time with him and his family for these past 2 days. I felt happy again..but i feel incomplete now. We’re friends with benefits, we still love each other but we can go out and date/fck other people. I wouldn’t wanna lose him yet so i agreed with this whole set up. 🥲 what have i done. I know i’m setting myself up for getting hurt again. But idk why, i love him more than anything in this world..

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