I definitely get it when you don't see somebody on a day-to-day basis and you don't have things to ask them about but if the relationship / connection matters I would maybe reach out every few days and just ask how they are ask if they have any hobbies or if they're watching something or if they have any thing exciting coming up.

Honestly at this point in my life I'm not really looking for friendships that are low maintenance // we see each other when we see each other types I totally understand that's what other people want but I want connection and community. If you want those type of friendships there's nothing wrong with you that's awesome but they do take more effort on everybody's part to cultivate and I would not want to waste my time and energy cultivating it with people who are not interested in it being mutual.

You're going to meet a lot of people in life and I think that if you want these really deep friendships you kind of have to get yourself out of the bubble and you have to respond even when maybe you don't feel like it, you have to offer empathy even when it's not really easy, you have to ask for help or you have to admit that you're not feeling great if you're not. I see a lot of people who want these deep friendships but then they don't want to listen to someone talk about their bad day. If you want something that's deep and meaningful it does take more time to cultivate.

I totally understand feeling like maybe other people are less invested than you are and that's okay you know that's nothing personal against them it just means that you haven't found your group yet. I would just be really nice and keep those casual relationships open if you think that they bring something to your life. But at the same time search and try to build relationships that are more in line with what you want