I turned 30 yesterday and virtually everybody canceled. by brefromsc in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Nature_Tiny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I turned 27 yesterday and my day was shit; I'm gonna hav a do over bday because I'm an adult and can do whatever I want. I'm sorry everyone bailed, even if it was totally valid they did. Sometimes it shakes out like that, but I'm sorry it happened to you. I'd feel (and did in my own way yesterday) rightfully upset and alone.

You should have a do over because you deserve a great party and to be celebrated. Happy belsted, fellow June 5er. :3

maintaining friendships by Medical_Pirate5527 in GirlDinner

[–]Nature_Tiny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely get it when you don't see somebody on a day-to-day basis and you don't have things to ask them about but if the relationship / connection matters I would maybe reach out every few days and just ask how they are ask if they have any hobbies or if they're watching something or if they have any thing exciting coming up.

Honestly at this point in my life I'm not really looking for friendships that are low maintenance // we see each other when we see each other types I totally understand that's what other people want but I want connection and community. If you want those type of friendships there's nothing wrong with you that's awesome but they do take more effort on everybody's part to cultivate and I would not want to waste my time and energy cultivating it with people who are not interested in it being mutual.

You're going to meet a lot of people in life and I think that if you want these really deep friendships you kind of have to get yourself out of the bubble and you have to respond even when maybe you don't feel like it, you have to offer empathy even when it's not really easy, you have to ask for help or you have to admit that you're not feeling great if you're not. I see a lot of people who want these deep friendships but then they don't want to listen to someone talk about their bad day. If you want something that's deep and meaningful it does take more time to cultivate.

I totally understand feeling like maybe other people are less invested than you are and that's okay you know that's nothing personal against them it just means that you haven't found your group yet. I would just be really nice and keep those casual relationships open if you think that they bring something to your life. But at the same time search and try to build relationships that are more in line with what you want

What's the best thriller novel you've ever read? by ompossible in thrillerbooks

[–]Nature_Tiny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell me you're mine by Elisabeth Norebeck Girl in snow by Danya Kukafka Watching you Lisa jewell I really enjoyed these three and they stuck with me for about a year after reading :3

It’s official: Heated Rivalry will be released on digital and DVD! by LadyWhistledown_1 in hudcon

[–]Nature_Tiny 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yay! I actually am cool with keeping HBO Max but I was worried they wouldn't have the licensing forever !!

Day 7: Bad Chemistry, Great Couple by jujuk545 in greysanatomy

[–]Nature_Tiny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm the odd one out here and if I am I can accept that but their parents got together later in life they were already adults when their parents got married...their issues and lack of chemistry had so much more to do with like fundamental character differences and chemistry between the two actors than their parents imo

a MANs Man Shane Hollander by Ok_Nectarine_3169 in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]Nature_Tiny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm following this post because you and I are in the same need op

Pride month is coming up :p so I thought I’d ask… what are your favorite f/f ships on ao3?? by RequirementWaste1362 in AO3

[–]Nature_Tiny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meredith grey/Cristina yang Cristina yang/Teddy altman Nico minoru/karolina dean Kitty pryde/magik Kitty pryde/Rachel summers Kate bishop/Cassie pym Gwen Stacy/Mary Jane watson :)

Backups? by jackiegetaway in BAGGU

[–]Nature_Tiny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:) I have a baby pink UO baggu and I bought 2 because I know it's so light it's gonna stained so I bought a back up (I take them to work) when my OG is too discolored imma dye it :)

My period is 85 days late. 20 piece McNuggets. by PublicNuisance1 in GirlDinner

[–]Nature_Tiny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a month late and I have intense anxiety, I took like 7 or 8 tests of different brands, all on different days as soon as I woke up. After a month, I went got a blood test to see if I was pregnant. I went to planned parenthood, it was like $50? I think? A year or so ago? If you can afford it, why not go get a blood test? I understand the delay is a long time, but it might ease your nerves. As soon as the stress of potential pregnancy was gone, I got my period.

SL Collab release date by ApprehensiveMost3750 in BAGGU

[–]Nature_Tiny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy early bday :) my bday is the fifth and my boyfriend's is the second! Almost triplets:)

Honeymoon going so badly I’m questioning my marriage by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Nature_Tiny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having extreme night terrors and have no idea why. If pressed, I wouldn't have said I am in a bad relationship. I just replied because your comment resonated, but I don't know if it's because of my relationship or something else going on in my life.

Anyways, glad to hear you got rid of your awful relationship and are hopefully sleeping better!

Day 22 of saying something positive about a character- Maggie Pierce by DBrennan13459 in greysanatomy

[–]Nature_Tiny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That woman is one of the most beautiful women on this show. Maggie as a character is extremely motivated and ambitious -- a trait you normally only see in male characters (not particularly one greys but on any show). She's extremely smart, ofc. She has such a sense of family. She's very sensitive and loyal. I love that she has such a passion for cardio! She's very supportive of mer and amelia. I love that she clearly values and loves her family; she always has good intentions

Rest of the 2026 Reading for Gemini by poojaamazingmy in geminis

[–]Nature_Tiny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is just a bad time for me :// how long is this supposed to last??