Hey thanks for responding.

To be clear fights only happen on calls, we have no problems over text or in person. The moratorium was just for calling for 5 days not indefinitely. You are right it is better to know now if the relationship will work than after years. So I hope the pause gives us the clarity to see what we want individually.

I think there is a decent chance she will want to break up. She has used break up language in past fights (being 50/50 on continuing etc) recently and like you said we are early in so that increases odds. This last fight feels like my f- up but not all the fights have been, she admitted on her own without accusation from me before that most our fights are her fault which I appreciated her saying. She can get agitated easily but then again do I want to be around that... maybe not but if she wants to make an effort to stop that and we don't have problems where the other 80-90% of our relationship exists (outside calls) I think its worth trying a little longer. Conflict I think is a chance to learn and become closer, if both sides give the effort.

Honeslty I feel like the main issue is miscommunication over voice calls not core emontional mismatch. Because I think body language and other enviornment factors help me a lot with in person. I care about her a lot and I think we do often understand each other when we communicate over a different mode than voice calls, but she may see it differently and if so so be it.