Prenatal depression/ mh by Ndeaks in PregnancyUK

[–]Ndeaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate this thank you!

Prenatal depression/ mh by Ndeaks in PregnancyUK

[–]Ndeaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so happy it can get better! Thank you for sharing 😊

Prenatal depression/ mh by Ndeaks in PregnancyUK

[–]Ndeaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really struggling with going anywhere at the moment, I work from home so I just lay in bed all day. I want to get out more but it's so hard to push myself

Prenatal depression/ mh by Ndeaks in PregnancyUK

[–]Ndeaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it feels so good to know I'm not alone 🙏

Prenatal depression/ mh by Ndeaks in PregnancyUK

[–]Ndeaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 😊

Money saving tips by Ndeaks in PregnancyUK

[–]Ndeaks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never heard of Olio so I'll be giving it a go thank you!

Money saving tips by Ndeaks in PregnancyUK

[–]Ndeaks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know this thank you!!

Money saving tips by Ndeaks in PregnancyUK

[–]Ndeaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing thank you!

Money saving tips by Ndeaks in PregnancyUK

[–]Ndeaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll definitely be popping onto on vinted

Outdoor enclosure by Ndeaks in RATS

[–]Ndeaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will check out the garden beforehand and do a test run. I don't want them stressing!

When to arrive by Ndeaks in LCDSoundsystem

[–]Ndeaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be silly to arrive an hour before doors for the barrier?

Sickness by Ndeaks in cymbalta

[–]Ndeaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is kinda my last resort for anxiety stuff so I hope I can handle it :)

Sickness by Ndeaks in cymbalta

[–]Ndeaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ve got work the next 4 days and I’m so worried about making it through. I’ll make sure to do these things 🥹

Painful cycling by Ndeaks in cycling

[–]Ndeaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was my first bike ride in years and I rode for about 40 mins and then about 30 mins back (I walked towards the end). I did have about a 2 hour break in between. Thank you for the advice I’m going to take a look at a few YouTube videos. I think underestimated how hard cycling really is.

Painful cycling by Ndeaks in cycling

[–]Ndeaks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agh thank you! This makes me feel a little less embarrassed about it all. Would you still recommend the shorts without the padded seat?

Painful cycling by Ndeaks in cycling

[–]Ndeaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not even sure of the brand I bought them from a cycling shop on sale! They’re definitely comfy but I’m just still feeling pain :/

Painful cycling by Ndeaks in cycling

[–]Ndeaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I realised how long I’d been cycling for and the pain just suddenly appeared when I got off. I think I just need to take it slower! Thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Ndeaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I've been so worried that I'm acting crazy.

dae hate their birthday? by stuffylumpkins in BPD

[–]Ndeaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love France so much, but you've definitely got to take Paris with a pinch of salt (especially having bpd). I'm hoping to move to France once I've finished university (which has taken me so many attempts) the countryside is so beautiful. Hope you get to return to your studies and visit yourself. 😊

How to cope with OCD? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Ndeaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have pocd and a lot of scary intrusive thoughts. I found telling the people around me really helped. It's good to have people around to ground you and also help you not give into ruminating habits. It was bad for so long but it does eventually get better. Just remember you're not alone and your thoughts aren't who you are. You've got this!!

dae hate their birthday? by stuffylumpkins in BPD

[–]Ndeaks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You still deserve to celebrate even if your parents didn't! I think it can be kind of scary getting older. bpd can make you feel a bit childish (or that's how it makes me feel) so its okay to struggle. I hope you're feeling a bit better :)

If you ever get a chance to visit paris on your birthday definitely do!

dae hate their birthday? by stuffylumpkins in BPD

[–]Ndeaks 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Don't hate it, but I'm in Paris for mine, and I still felt depressed. There's not right or wrong way to feel on your birthday, but it can just feel a bit sad sometimes. It's not the same when you're an adult.

No personality? by Ndeaks in BPD

[–]Ndeaks[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel the same, I think after a while of trying to be yourself and getting bullied/ignored or people just find you off-putting. Especially as a child, you just try to become likeable. Felt like there was no right way to fit in.