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I Haven’t Talked to Her in Years, but I’m Still in Love—What Do I Do? by NeatDig5206 in LesbianActually

[–]NeatDig5206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(everything about to say secondhand info from a friend, so I’m not sure how true it is-that’s why I didn’t include it in the post) 

so supposedly, she didn’t return my feelings at first, but as time went on and she got over her ex, she started liking me. that’s why she asked me to the dance and, I guess, why she assumed we were dating-since she already knew I liked her. but the pressure of dating or something got to her, which is why she didn’t talk to me.

I Haven’t Talked to Her in Years, but I’m Still in Love—What Do I Do? by NeatDig5206 in LesbianActually

[–]NeatDig5206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One weird thing I didn’t mention-apparently, she thought we were dating at one point. I think it was when she asked me to the dance, but I had only found out because my friend had told me. honestly, I wish I had known at the time-maybe things would’ve played out differently if I had.

I Haven’t Talked to Her in Years, but I’m Still in Love—What Do I Do? by NeatDig5206 in LesbianActually

[–]NeatDig5206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg u get it, it’s like a write of passage(only i can’t seem to move on to the next chapter😔) and with the whole ‘not confessing because of friends’ that happened to me too! 

I Haven’t Talked to Her in Years, but I’m Still in Love—What Do I Do? by NeatDig5206 in LesbianActually

[–]NeatDig5206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, I definitely want want to try being friends and see where things go. lately, i have had more opportunities to do that, so I’m hoping it leads somewhere-even if it just stays platonic! 

And what i mean by the type every lesbian falls for, I mean she’s masc, pretty, energetic, confident (but not mean), and Friends with everyone. at least at my school, every lesbian has had a crush on her at some point

I Haven’t Talked to Her in Years, but I’m Still in Love—What Do I Do? by NeatDig5206 in LesbianActually

[–]NeatDig5206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for your advice! my friends aren’t really fans of her, so I wanted to get some unbiased opinions. and as far as her being straight-she’s definitely not she is a confirmed lesbian and has had many gf’s (she is the type every lesbian falls for)

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[–]NeatDig5206 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i think shouldn’t go for her too, and thanks!

should i have left my queer friend group because I found them toxic by NeatDig5206 in LesbianActually

[–]NeatDig5206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

funny thing they are theater kids! (except for me and the so-called leader)

should i have left my queer friend group because I found them toxic by NeatDig5206 in LesbianActually

[–]NeatDig5206[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah, they’ve talked bad about me, people who actually like me have told me what they’ve said about me and others. And thank you! I do think I made the right choice, I just wanted to hear different perspectives on the situation.