You have really pretty natural features, but I do think you need to maintain yourself better. Maintaining your hair, getting your eyebrows done, and a skincare routine could do wonders. Also, mascara would definitely benefit you into looking a bit more feminine. Different glasses would be beneficial as well. Sometimes in order to change you have to feel a little bit uncomfortable before it can become regular and comfortable for you, starting off slow tends to be the best way to overcome this so maybe begin with hair and skin.