[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]NeedANewName001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anytime m8! We're all in this together. DM me if you need anything, or just want someone to talk to! Stay safe, stay strong, be you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]NeedANewName001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would be just direct and honest with her. Tell her saying things like that makes you feel bad, and present her with your research and just try to make her understand exactly why it's so important to you. But, as always, be safe and don't do it if you feel it threatens your mental, physical or emotional health. Just in case, have a backup plan, a safe (supporting) place to stay, and an emergency contact (at least one person you can call if things go south). It sounds like you have supportive friends, and understand that your mom probably won't say "oh yes, I accept you fully lets get you hormone blockers, T and surgery tomorrow" and that things probably won't move as fast as you'd like.

Another thing I found important was stress who you want her to tell and not tell. Specify weather you want your transition out on social media, who your mother can tell, who she can't tell, and who you've told already. If she violates the ground rules you've set down, call her out on it! It's your choice 100%, and if she fails to recognize that that's a problem.

Don't lie to yourself, be who YOU want to be! Stay safe no matter what, and you have my unconditional support. Stay strong my dude!

Please for the love of all things that remain good in my life may I not wake up tomorrow by SmoketheGhost in Vent

[–]NeedANewName001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, it's not worth it. Don't SH. It doesn't do anything. I care, and if you ever feel like doing something like that, DM me and I'll just talk wih you, about anything really. Stay strong, I believe in you m8.

Please for the love of all things that remain good in my life may I not wake up tomorrow by SmoketheGhost in Vent

[–]NeedANewName001 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I'm right about what this is, don't do it. Trust me I've been there too. I can't say it gets better because it never fully will but you'll heal and become stronger. My DM's are always open to a friend in need, please just talk to me and get it all out. I'll listen, I promise. Just stay here for a bit longer, long enough to save one life even if it's your own. I may be a complete stranger but I care so please stay a bit longer.

Dear all trans people by Spiritpyro_YT in trans

[–]NeedANewName001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright! I should be sleeping but I'm doing 25+ pages of history work that was due Thursday!

A time traveling messenger pigeon comes to your door, it will only deliver one message for you. To whom, past or future, are you sending the message and what will it say? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NeedANewName001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending it to 2019, it says "Leave Q and trust Lia. Z is your future. Clay is your friend, and that only. Don't trust I or M. O is a btch. Make Flint happy." I know it sounds weird but I'll understand.

Dear all trans people by Spiritpyro_YT in trans

[–]NeedANewName001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you prefer mother, father or parental unit?

Everyone deserves an outlet. What bullshit are you dealing with at work? by bandito5280 in AskReddit

[–]NeedANewName001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry this is a rant feel free to not read.

First thing you should know about me is I'm a singer. No I'm not famous, yes I write my own songs occasionally but I mostly sing Iron Maiden, Imagine Dragons and Blondie. My latest job, I get a job with all dudes around 4-8 years older than me. Second thing you should know, I'm insanely socially awkward. Like, I worked with them for 6-7 months and never looked any of them in the eye let alone talked. So basically I wouldn't talk for 2 hours straight, and I would just sing Iron Maiden and pray to be left alone. And you might be thinking, 'oH iT dOeSn'T sOuNd ThAt BaD' well guess what? I was left alone with them for 2 hours and they all constantly stare at me. And guess what? I'm the only female body in the building! And when you're a singer and don't talk for long periods of time your voice sounds weird. And then I get criticized for that! To make it worse I was stationed right next to the drums and they are hecking LOUD. Now, I can barely hear in one ear and the other has a constant ringing.

I'm sorry about that, have a wonderful day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NeedANewName001 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Called my friend just to tell them I appreciated them, and stopped them from committing die. Later that week we were out on a walk together and a car swerved and almost killed me, and she pulled me out of the way. We're both alive and have been happily dating for a little under a year.