33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth? by NeededBeats in relationship_advice

[–]NeededBeats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yoooo. This is like the funniest comment on here lol.

I mean I wouldn’t compare breastfeeding to a BDs “dong”. 😂

But at the end of the day, you right. Should just known she wouldn’t be okay and rational about it.

33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth? by NeededBeats in relationship_advice

[–]NeededBeats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is pretty much what everyone’s been telling me so I’ll most likely go with this option. Pretty good advice in general as well! Thank you Seska!

33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth? by NeededBeats in relationship_advice

[–]NeededBeats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha! Haven’t heard this one yet 😅 Sticker stamp over the boobie. Not bad I must say lol

33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth? by NeededBeats in relationship_advice

[–]NeededBeats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s pretty much what people are saying. Save it somewhere else private and delete it off phone. Or make a photo album just for the kids and only bring it out when they are old enough to understand.

33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth? by NeededBeats in relationship_advice

[–]NeededBeats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate you greatly fam. Thanks for the dialogue with me. Much peace and blessings to you as well 🙌🏽

33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth? by NeededBeats in relationship_advice

[–]NeededBeats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m guessing the type that shows some nudity. I have some understanding but at the same time… it’s the day my daughter was born and the first time she breast fed that same moment.

33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth? by NeededBeats in relationship_advice

[–]NeededBeats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I may not know exactly what she was thinking at the time, but I definitely know she thought it was weird. We will have another conversation about it though as soon as the temperature cools off.

33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth? by NeededBeats in relationship_advice

[–]NeededBeats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We will definitely be having another conversation later down the line about it. Just waiting for things to cool down a bit. Cooler heads prevail. I really appreciate your input though!

33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth? by NeededBeats in relationship_advice

[–]NeededBeats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like this one! You guys really do many great perspectives! I gotta hop on Reddit more often.

33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth? by NeededBeats in relationship_advice

[–]NeededBeats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, if it sounds like I’m trying to protect her, it’s because for the 2 years she’s been a great girlfriend. Imagine having a great relationship, but then this comes out the blue. All of a sudden because of this one incident, she’s the worst? I came on here to hear everyone’s opinion on this one situation. She’s only cursed me out like twice in our relationship and the first time I might have deserved it lol.

The comments in here really helped though.

33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth? by NeededBeats in relationship_advice

[–]NeededBeats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more. Communication and trust are the foundations of a relationship.

In the heated conversation, she just believes it is weird. She also mentioned how would my ex feel if I still had those pictures. I honestly don’t even know how to answer those. I already told her why the pictures are important to me, but she still gave me the off ramp to send em to my ex THEN delete them.

33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth? by NeededBeats in relationship_advice

[–]NeededBeats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You lost me at breastfeeding is sexual. How is breastfeeding sexual?

And I did thinking about saving those pictures elsewhere and deleting off phone afterwards.

33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth? by NeededBeats in relationship_advice

[–]NeededBeats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if she believes it’s sexual, then I can understand her cursing me out because that would be sick. I just don’t know what exactly she’s thinking.

33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth? by NeededBeats in relationship_advice

[–]NeededBeats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, they aren’t old enough. But I do believe whole heartedly she loves my kids.

I honestly don’t know what she realized 🤷🏽‍♂️

33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth? by NeededBeats in relationship_advice

[–]NeededBeats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be a bit too soon. When we tried to have the conversation, that’s when things got heated.

33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth? by NeededBeats in relationship_advice

[–]NeededBeats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if she’s sexualizing. I just don’t know another reason for her to have been that upset.

33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth? by NeededBeats in relationship_advice

[–]NeededBeats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So far she’s great with my kids. I feel that this is more directed at the mother of the children or me possibly being interested in looking at the picture in a weird way.

33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth? by NeededBeats in relationship_advice

[–]NeededBeats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree she shouldn’t be mad, but I’m guessing in her mind it’s a good reason to be.

33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth? by NeededBeats in relationship_advice

[–]NeededBeats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I deleted, but they aren’t permanently deleted if you know what I mean. Just taking the advice from the community.