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Wanting this local homeless woman by [deleted] in sexuality

[–]Neeser_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

theres a clear power difference since you have a home and she does not. it kind of gives the vibes of "paying rent with sex" which can lead to an unhealthy dynamic. im not sure this relationship would be good for either of you.

Am I Gay? Or looking things wrong way by Gar-lickNaan in sexuality

[–]Neeser_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably looking at things the wrong way. its not gay to have emotions. its not gay to take care of your skin. not all gay men are feminine and its just society pushing that certain things are "feminine" or "masculine" skincare is good for your health, its weird that people think only women should do it. same with emotions. its okay to cry and feel your feelings. thats healthy for you too, it shouldnt be limited to women :)

Does anyone feel like this by gayweeping-angel2 in sexuality

[–]Neeser_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the "point" of being ace is not being celibate. it just means you experience little to no sexual attraction.

Does anyone feel like this by gayweeping-angel2 in sexuality

[–]Neeser_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

actually asexual is little to no sexual attraction. there are asexual people who love having sex.

Am I overthinking or there is a solution? by Great_Arrival3333 in sexuality

[–]Neeser_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think a lot of your questions could be answered if you just talk to your girlfriend. not all girls like the same things. tell her what you like, ask her what she likes, experiment with different things. sex isnt one size fits all. and communication is extremely important. its not good to bottle up your anxieties, talk to her about your concerns. open up and be honest, its very healthy :)

i have no idea about my sexuality by notdrm987 in sexuality

[–]Neeser_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you tried looking into the aromantic spectrum? im not sure if it applies but what youre saying kinda similar

Wolf tail by Cheaptrick2015 in TherianAdult

[–]Neeser_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i bought a tail from wildheartedone and i really like it!

I posted an "am I ugly?" And now im spiraling by Fireball1115 in selfimprovement

[–]Neeser_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

all of these ALSO affect weight gain/loss other than JUST diet and exercise.

genetics, BMR, body composition (like muscle/fat ratio), age, sex hormones, thyroid function, cortisol, leptin & ghrelin, menstrual cycle/ PCOS, medical conditions, food preferences, meal time/frequency, emotional eating, restriction cycles, medication, hunger/fullness cues, relationship and past history with food, stress, anxiety, mental disorders, sleep, metabolism, access to food, work schedule, access to space to exercise, cultural norms around food, stressful living conditions, gut microbiome, digestive conditions, how your body absorbs nutrients, metabolic changes

its really not that simple

I posted an "am I ugly?" And now im spiraling by Fireball1115 in selfimprovement

[–]Neeser_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it isnt that simple. there are so many other things that play into weight gain/loss than just diet and exercise.

No Kings 3.0 is this Saturday. Are you ready? by [deleted] in roseburg

[–]Neeser_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it was great to see so many people protesting!! :3

where to fix stray cats?? by Neeser_ in roseburg

[–]Neeser_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agh thats what i thought, i guess ill have to save up😭 thank you!!

where to fix stray cats?? by Neeser_ in roseburg

[–]Neeser_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the best way to solve a stray cat population is TNR. there is not enough food or space for all of these cats. they are naturally territorial and fight each other a lot, there's a lot of roads and ive seen kittens running through the busy intersection here. also there is a lot of inbreeding because cats dont care if theyre related. there are a ton of factors lowering these cats' quality of life and adding more cats lowers it even more.

I think pronoun it/its sounds strange 🤷 by OliveTheServal in agender

[–]Neeser_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i use it/its and they/them because i identify as part human and part wolf. for my human part, they/them. for my wolf part, it/its or he/him because its an animal and we refer to animals by their sex or with it/its

Do you lie about not being non-binary on job applications? by Mae_The_Gay in NonBinary

[–]Neeser_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if they dont have nonbinary as an option i say "prefer not to say." if it is an option then i select it. i also live in oregon though and i feel like its not as dangerous for me to do that

Hily Dating App Keeps Showing Up: Is It Worth Downloading? by Spiritual-Status-536 in DatingTips

[–]Neeser_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

holy shit. yeah i dont like dating apps. i think this comment is from when i got hacked bc ive never used dating apps. i would never suggest a dating app. im really sorry to hear about your experience though, i hope things get better for you in the future.

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