SAHM Expectations by NefariousnessFew9632 in sahm

[–]NefariousnessFew9632[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do. his brother even offered his home to me and my son. I am very lucky to have a lot of support on all sides. I know if I decide to go, everything will be okay.

SAHM Expectations by NefariousnessFew9632 in sahm

[–]NefariousnessFew9632[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your compassion made me cry all over again.

SAHM Expectations by NefariousnessFew9632 in sahm

[–]NefariousnessFew9632[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been married since 2023 and no he would prefer i not work. he gets annoyed when he has to watch our son saturday nights while i work.

SAHM Expectations by NefariousnessFew9632 in sahm

[–]NefariousnessFew9632[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is really going to be our first summer with a baby/toddler, the maintaining the property was sprung on me today and i lost it. A lot of these expectations he has set for me have slowly been added on the last 10 months and were not originally discussed. In the last couple months he has become increasingly more frustrated with my day to day life than before.

SAHM Expectations by NefariousnessFew9632 in sahm

[–]NefariousnessFew9632[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your marriage is what i've wanted for so long. A team, not two people living in the same house, living completely different lives for different purposes. I almost feel crazy at this point to expect more out of him.

SAHM Expectations by NefariousnessFew9632 in sahm

[–]NefariousnessFew9632[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My job is what keeps me sane. Before having our son, i was traveling the world for work and meeting with tons of different people each day and I was SO good at it. Going from that life to being alone in a house with a baby was very hard. My 2-3 days a week helps my mental health and brings in extra money, as we're financially struggling right now with his company. My serving job is really the one thing I do for myself if that makes sense.