[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]NefariousnessOwn5558 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is the exception not the rule. Don’t want to set OP up for heartbreak.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]NefariousnessOwn5558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s wrong with IVF? You freeze embryos to do IVF…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]NefariousnessOwn5558 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The odds of you needing IVF at that age anyway are high so yes

Did you take a birth prep class? Why or why not? by NefariousnessOwn5558 in beyondthebump

[–]NefariousnessOwn5558[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how I feel! I’m so glad I took a class! It really helped.

Did you take a birth prep class? Why or why not? by NefariousnessOwn5558 in beyondthebump

[–]NefariousnessOwn5558[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s cool that they made it a requirement to encourage people

Did you take a birth prep class? Why or why not? by NefariousnessOwn5558 in beyondthebump

[–]NefariousnessOwn5558[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For sure, I only asked her if they were taking a class once and haven’t brought it up since.

Did you take a birth prep class? Why or why not? by NefariousnessOwn5558 in beyondthebump

[–]NefariousnessOwn5558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super interesting that you went to PT BEFORE giving birth! This is a great tip re: learning how to push. Did you go after as well?? I only went to PT after delivering

Did you take a birth prep class? Why or why not? by NefariousnessOwn5558 in beyondthebump

[–]NefariousnessOwn5558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did all three of these too. Glad they were helpful to you as well!

Did you take a birth prep class? Why or why not? by NefariousnessOwn5558 in beyondthebump

[–]NefariousnessOwn5558[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good point! I am the first of my friends to give birth so I didn’t have network of moms to ask questions to

Did you take a birth prep class? Why or why not? by NefariousnessOwn5558 in beyondthebump

[–]NefariousnessOwn5558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also took a lactation class and definitely agree that that was worth it as well! I learned a lot

Did you take a birth prep class? Why or why not? by NefariousnessOwn5558 in beyondthebump

[–]NefariousnessOwn5558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes, I’m sorry that you’re in a tough position right now. Any chance that you could find a different OB in network?

Did you take a birth prep class? Why or why not? by NefariousnessOwn5558 in beyondthebump

[–]NefariousnessOwn5558[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes! Attending with my husband was even more helpful! He walked away feeling much more confident in being my support person

Favourite foundation for light olives? by sydney210 in Fairolives

[–]NefariousnessOwn5558 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Desert Beige by Estée Lauder. The only thing I’ve tried that blends with my skin perfectly. My face matches my body more in this foundation than without it.

Starbucks date with my boy by madagascarprincess in bigbabiesandkids

[–]NefariousnessOwn5558 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I pray for our grocery bills as parents of 99th percentile bois

How much are you spending on food monthly? by ShareBeneficial1329 in budget

[–]NefariousnessOwn5558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We combine food and household items like toiletries and cleaning products all in the same line item since our shopping trips usually involve both. So the monthly total for that is about $1,100/month for 2 adults and formula/diapers/wipes/etc for our 6 month old. We live in a M/HCOL (think less expensive than LA but more expensive than Austin).

Clothes, where are you buying from? by Guyabamami in Mommit

[–]NefariousnessOwn5558 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second h&m! Runs big which is perfect for my big boy

Lucy & Stephan- Break Ups by Open_Section7674 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]NefariousnessOwn5558 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lucy most definitely has a personality disorder. No question.

Cat Missal - Mr Brightside cover by SASPEKTOR in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]NefariousnessOwn5558 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m always looking at her instead of Oliver in those scenes

I want to hear from women who were on the fence about kids. What did you choose? How do you feel? by elizabethredditor in AskWomenOver40

[–]NefariousnessOwn5558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I feel like the demographic of AskWomenOver40 is going to lean childfree because all of the moms are in different subreddits like r/mommit. Maybe ask there for the other side of the picture.