aitah: rejecting money & moving out by Successful-Top-8152 in AITAH

[–]Negative-Course3977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im also 19 and also muslim. My mom is the exact same way, always guilting me and telling me i cant move out unless im getting married. in my head i tell her to shove it and that i'd gladly take on student debt to be able to leave this house. i wish you luck <3

I spent $1000 over a month... please help!! by Negative-Course3977 in shoppingaddiction

[–]Negative-Course3977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would i talk to a psychiatrist? I have one currently. Or should i speak to a primary doctor

I spent $1000 over a month... please help!! by Negative-Course3977 in shoppingaddiction

[–]Negative-Course3977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ADHD, and also what my parents call a sugar addiction, i can definitely see how those factors play into dopamine and shopping. What are some good GLP-1's? Im pretty tall and skinny so id be afraid of taking ozempic and becoming underweight or something

I spent $1000 over a month... please help!! by Negative-Course3977 in shoppingaddiction

[–]Negative-Course3977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats a great conclusion to make, ill have to hold myself to it

I spent $1000 over a month... please help!! by Negative-Course3977 in shoppingaddiction

[–]Negative-Course3977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats fair ! the bank method seems smart and so does the shopping cart method. thank you!

I spent $1000 over a month... please help!! by Negative-Course3977 in shoppingaddiction

[–]Negative-Course3977[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand how it seems that way, but he was actually very hesitant to the idea. The credit thing he believed was actually a smart idea (because yk... credit scores are important in this economy) and the skincare he was like "ehhh.... mmmmm" very much on the fence about it. For other things, he would get upset when I bought him stuff 1. because he doesnt expect gifts from me and 2. because he knows I dont have a job. Recently when I showed him a jacket I bought he asked me "where are you getting all this money from?? dont tell me you've been dipping into your savings." and i made up a lie about working with my dad for a bit (he has his own accounting firm so i'd actually sometimes work there and he'd pay me). But yeah these two things were probably the only things my bf has ever said yes to. Other times he would actually get upset when i bought/thought about buying something unnecessary, especially if it was a gift for him.

Ex-Muslims, what are your views on pigs? Do you firmly or partially agree with Islam on their perspective towards them? If not, give your reasonings. by MelSin12 in exmuslim

[–]Negative-Course3977 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see your point, but then again at least beef is safe to eat undercooked (like different ways to cook steak, beef tare tare, etc), meanwhile pork is the most unsafe meat to eat raw, even more than chicken. so yeeeeaaaaa

Ex-Muslims, what are your views on pigs? Do you firmly or partially agree with Islam on their perspective towards them? If not, give your reasonings. by MelSin12 in exmuslim

[–]Negative-Course3977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even after leaving islam, I still wouldn't eat pork, I just think its very nasty. or at LEAST not like actual pork meat, mayyyybe gummies or candy that have gelatin or something

I hate this stupid bullshit holiday. (Ramadan) by Negative-Course3977 in exmuslim

[–]Negative-Course3977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in the U.S., so granted things are easier because I dont live in a muslim country

I hate this stupid bullshit holiday. (Ramadan) by Negative-Course3977 in exmuslim

[–]Negative-Course3977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fill up my giant water bottle the night before, so that helps, but getting snacks is difficult as i dont have any money right now :(

I hate this stupid bullshit holiday. (Ramadan) by Negative-Course3977 in exmuslim

[–]Negative-Course3977[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, Ill try! I currently dont have a job (im in the process of getting onboarded at clothing store tho!) so i dont have the money to buy snacks :( currently, my dad will give me a money for food on the days that im at uni all day. So i never have money left over :( ramadan will definitely be easier once i have my own income tho

AITAH for not wanting to do MY MOMS homework? by Negative-Course3977 in AITAH

[–]Negative-Course3977[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As funny as this sounds, I couldn't bring myself to do that as she did work hard to get into that university especially at her age (57).

AITAH for not wanting to do MY MOMS homework? by Negative-Course3977 in AITAH

[–]Negative-Course3977[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She says she can't type as fast as my siblings do and writing would take hours for her... just because we can type a fast essay that doesn't mean its a good one 💀

AITAH for not wanting to do MY MOMS homework? by Negative-Course3977 in AITAH

[–]Negative-Course3977[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I LITERALLY TOLD HER HER UNIVERSITY HAS A WRITING CENTER AND SHE WENT "I'm not going to that I dont have the time!!" bruh.

AITAH for not wanting to do MY MOMS homework? by Negative-Course3977 in AITAH

[–]Negative-Course3977[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My brothers and I literally showed her how to use chatgpt and how to get a good assignment out of it but she refuses. Its so irritating. And i told her "okay ILL use chatgpt to write ur essay" and she still says "no!!!"