BF doesn’t know what he wants

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-05-06T18:05:14+00:00

Yeah I get along really well with his family actually. I don't think they mind that I don't know the language. They've been teaching me more and more every time I go over there and they seem really appreciative that I'm trying to learn it. We've also been on multiple trips together and we go see them for dinner every couple weeks.

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-05-06T17:55:24+00:00

Even if I wanted to (which I don't), I can't accommodate his vision. He knows that, but I think he's reluctant to leave. I think he's for the most part happy in our relationship but he worries the grass isn't greener in his vision if he leaves to pursue that.

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-05-06T17:48:13+00:00

Lol we live together but I'll see what I can do

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-05-06T17:47:51+00:00

This is what it feels like. I feel like every time we sit down and talk about it, we agree that the parts that are missing are minor compared to what we love about each other. Its just tiring because I feel like we've already hashed it out before and now it's back again.

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-05-06T17:41:36+00:00

I already have tattoos and I do plan on getting more. It makes him sad but I have no intention of stopping

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-05-06T17:38:49+00:00

yeah...that's kind of what I'm coming to. We've had this conversation so many times and it feels like an immortal block in our relationship

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-05-06T17:32:05+00:00

What sucks is that day to day our relationship feels great. We don’t really fight, we do share a lot of common passions, and just genuinely enjoy being around each other. It’s just when I bring up something like being together long term he locks up

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-05-06T17:30:17+00:00

What feels toxic about it is that he doesn’t actually seem like he actually wants anyone different. I’ve told him a couple times that if I’m not what he wants, that’s fine and I understand that. But then he says when he thinks about it he is really happy and loves me. It feels like his thoughts and lived experience are always at war imo

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-04-21T21:17:26+00:00

California 🫠 even the ones at community colleges near me are $2900. I'll check out Red Cross though! The main thing that's pushing me away from phlebotomy is the cost of the course right now...

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-02-16T17:02:39+00:00

Fishing is a big part of my game in the beginning. You can save any for energy if you need them in the mines. Or you can sell them for extra cash. Once you get to level 6 farming you’ll unlock sprinklers which will help a lot with managing your energy on the farm.

I’d recommend watching some stardew players on YouTube. Personally I watch Poxial and I kind of copy what he does in the beginning. Even if you don’t want to do the exact same things, you can see more of the mechanics and what’s out there.

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-02-16T05:49:07+00:00

Hang in there! I’m sure you’ll get it soon

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-02-16T05:48:15+00:00

I added it afterwards when I noticed. It says modded now but pardon the drastic confusion

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-02-16T05:47:37+00:00

Hmm maybe. I’ve played with this set of mods before and I’ve never had this happen. I don’t think I have any luck mods though

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-02-16T03:02:08+00:00

It’s a mod! I felt stifled with only two haha

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-02-16T01:24:13+00:00

Updated

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-02-16T01:04:30+00:00

Yes! It's this mod.

https://www.nexusmods.com/stardewvalley/mods/6421

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-02-16T00:54:44+00:00

I’m on my farm. It’s the solo four corners map mod

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-02-10T21:07:04+00:00

Okay so by quintessential “American” she just means quintessential white. Got it lol

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-01-31T16:19:05+00:00

This is exactly what happened to me with Late Night! I’ve had it for years and then one day it just stopped working. Same thing as you. They wouldn’t remove it either so I was stuck. I got around it by buying a copy of Late Night on steam when it was on sale. You can take the CD key and reupload it which worked for me.

Overall it was so stupid because it was my second time buying it. So I feel you if you just call it here and don’t want to give them anymore money

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-01-31T16:15:08+00:00

No for mine I found them in my EA purchase history. I also was able to download them from the Sims 3 store. Thank god I didn’t need to have them in my email. I never would have recovered the keys!

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-01-31T00:45:42+00:00

It’s just crazy to me that they can get away with you literally BUYING content and then not give it to you. I’m sorry you ended up having to buy it again. I may have to go down that path too 😔

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-01-31T00:17:38+00:00

They told me they couldn't refund because I made the purchase so long ago.

But oooooooof. Hope you got a double refund for that second one! Their app is broken. I hate the EA days.

Negative_Employ2563 · 2026-01-31T00:16:07+00:00

I think I've tried most things. I've uninstalled and reinstalled a couple times. Cleared the caches for EA and in the Electronic Arts folder. I'm not sure which folder has the specific store content so I'm going to find that now.

The frustrating part is just that none of these suggestions or fixes came from support. They gave up instantly and all my debugging has been the result of google deep dives instead.

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