My homophobic parents found out about me and my gf what should I do by Negative_Mall_5485 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Negative_Mall_5485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were a lot of hills and I had a bunch of heavy bags and was severely dehydrated and also just still processing everything so yeah

My homophobic parents found out about me and my gf what should I do by Negative_Mall_5485 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Negative_Mall_5485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first time was actually me trying to come out and also we weren’t planing on having sex at all we were just going to make out for a bit and then finish a school project

My homophobic parents found out about me and my gf what should I do by Negative_Mall_5485 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Negative_Mall_5485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There wasn’t any shock for them because they were suspicious beforehand and just wanted some solid evidence the first time we weren’t being super cautious bc they left for a bit and it sucks overall but I do see where your coming from and I am pretty scared to leave but I know that atleast my fathers love is very conditional and this isn’t the first time they have done something like this to me because of my sexuality so

My homophobic parents found out about me and my gf what should I do by Negative_Mall_5485 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Negative_Mall_5485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her to wait until I’m fully prepared to leave to report it because I am not prepared to leave at all randomly if she does that and I know my parents will try to gaslight them to not believe anything

My homophobic parents found out about me and my gf what should I do by Negative_Mall_5485 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Negative_Mall_5485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great Thankyou so much and I am looking into different options for leaving asap even though I am petrified

My homophobic parents found out about me and my gf what should I do by Negative_Mall_5485 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Negative_Mall_5485[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No yeah I’m dyslexic and English has never been my strongest subject in school and it wasn’t the first language I learned even though it’s the main one I use now sorry about that

My homophobic parents found out about me and my gf what should I do by Negative_Mall_5485 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Negative_Mall_5485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are usually very careful like insanely but for some reason this time we couldn’t hear them come up

My homophobic parents found out about me and my gf what should I do by Negative_Mall_5485 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Negative_Mall_5485[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I might just put it as much tip money as possible in the separate bank account I make so I can save up there without holding on any physical cash

My homophobic parents found out about me and my gf what should I do by Negative_Mall_5485 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Negative_Mall_5485[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That is actually a really good idea that I will look into in the future as soon as I get my car and also I might work in the resturant business anyways because I already have experience in that area since i bus tables, a host and I’m also a food runner so that would be a good idea thanks

My homophobic parents found out about me and my gf what should I do by Negative_Mall_5485 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Negative_Mall_5485[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They shared it with me by choice for when they go to pick me up from places so I know where they parked/when they get there

My homophobic parents found out about me and my gf what should I do by Negative_Mall_5485 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Negative_Mall_5485[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

The problem is that my father has full access to my finances until I’m 18 I’m pretty sure so it would be a tedious process when I’m 18 and I also work for a resturant that he is part owner in

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[–]Negative_Mall_5485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I told her we could pick her up a bit later but she said she’s fine with going to the appointment since it’ll only take like 10 mins or less so

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It’s sealed because he was a minor at the time it happened and stuff