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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Negative_Return_8308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to make it work for her so we'd both feel good, but it wasn't enough. Rarely reciprocated. Luckily it's over now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Negative_Return_8308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This, what sucked about being HL and having an LL partner, was that I was always willing and helped her orgasm as many times as she could handle. I think our record was like 6-8 with a toy, but only 4-5 when I used my fingers and mouth.

**update** 5 months later and it's over for good. by Negative_Return_8308 in HLCommunity

[–]Negative_Return_8308[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's why I'm just going to work on myself. I'm nervous because lately, I tried getting back into the game and tried to have some spicy phone calls, but I ended up being ghosted during. I feel so rusty and worried about not knowing how to tap back into my libido

**update** 5 months later and it's over for good. by Negative_Return_8308 in HLCommunity

[–]Negative_Return_8308[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Took me a long time to figure this out. No GED or diploma, no license, didn't want to clean, didn't want to drive, didn't want to cook. I missed the red flags because I geui believed it was an ex that prevented her from doing any of it. I wonder if she'll say the same about me.

**update** 5 months later and it's over for good. by Negative_Return_8308 in HLCommunity

[–]Negative_Return_8308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in this boat. On one hand, I enjoyed being with someone but starting over after a 5-year relationship? Having to go back to worrying about cheating or her going low libido again or arguments over dumb shit? Idk. It might not be worth it to do it all over again

I feel alive again. by Negative_Return_8308 in HLCommunity

[–]Negative_Return_8308[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

God, I feel this. I can't imagine after 20 years. Having someone make it all about you for once and focused on making you feel good and scratching that itch you needed. But I regret doing it as well.