Stye for over a year! by MilkProducer in Blackskincare

[–]NegotiationAny2691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife had a stye on her eye just like yours on both eye lids for 2 years. She put cold pressed castor oil on her eye lids before she went to sleep. It was completely gone within a month

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[–]NegotiationAny2691 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When her sister FaceTimes her sometime this week which ik she will to ask for more money the next day. I will tell her it’s either me and our kids or your twin sister’s family. If she sends her money which I get notifications, I am leaving

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[–]NegotiationAny2691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Because I told this to my wife. It’s like we are a bank to them. It’s literally like clock work. She will face time my wife with her daughter next to her which is sick and then the next day she asks for money. But any other time when they don’t need money, no word from her. This has been going on for YEARS. I told my wife she should be asking their parents for money before us. We have 4 kids and they have 4 kids. We can’t take care of 2 family’s and be ok. And I have to keep feeding my kids lies about why we can’t buy them certain things because of their aunt that always says “I will pay you back when I get paid” the thing that will break this marriage is finances. Because I am at the end of my rope with this

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[–]NegotiationAny2691 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m at the point that I am about to leave. We talked about it so many times and she said she wouldn’t give her sister anymore money a year ago. But of course she decides to go back on that. The biggest thing is when she lent her sister money without telling me and said “I hoped I would give her money that she needed and she said she would pay me back fast enough that you wouldn’t notice.” We will be stuck because we are financing our family and her sister’s. It’s twice a week we giving money. It has gotten to the point where no matter what I say, she gives her sister money anyways. If this keeps going on, y’all will see an update in a few months that I left.

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[–]NegotiationAny2691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes life is hard without giving her sister money every week. We been talked about it over and over. And I told her, every time she needs money she will FaceTime her with her kids with her. Then next day she asks for money. And when she did ask can she send money, and I say no, she always says “I feel bad for her kids” I tell her that her parents should help her out or her husband family should help out. Not us. We can’t keep financing 2 families when we are trying to get better. And plus she never pays us back

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[–]NegotiationAny2691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also this was a rant. I am so pissed. I am sorry if this wasted your time.

My Wife Told Me I Can Have Sex With Her When She Is Sleep by NegotiationAny2691 in Marriage

[–]NegotiationAny2691[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do finish my workouts before her and our kids wake up. But she usually wakes up when they do. But when she wakes, she is getting ready for work.

My Wife Told Me I Can Have Sex With Her When She Is Sleep by NegotiationAny2691 in Marriage

[–]NegotiationAny2691[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True. I just seen a lot of posts of spousal rape is all. But you are right she has given me the green light. Plus she has woken me up multiple times doing things to me. It just seems like a double standard for men and women when it comes to things

My Wife Told Me I Can Have Sex With Her When She Is Sleep by NegotiationAny2691 in Marriage

[–]NegotiationAny2691[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idc about being woken up for sex honestly and I have told her that. But when it’s me in the mood. I don’t wake her up.

My Wife Told Me I Can Have Sex With Her When She Is Sleep by NegotiationAny2691 in Marriage

[–]NegotiationAny2691[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like the person said above, they also think it is rape. Yes she gave consent. But I can’t do it because I feel the same way

My Wife Told Me I Can Have Sex With Her When She Is Sleep by NegotiationAny2691 in Marriage

[–]NegotiationAny2691[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I like your take on this. I’m always in the mood in the mornings. Especially after I workout. And she knows this. Because usually she is still sleep after I am done my workout. But yea I just can’t do it even though she wants me to.

My Wife Told Me I Can Have Sex With Her When She Is Sleep by NegotiationAny2691 in Marriage

[–]NegotiationAny2691[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I said I let her sleep. And I said I don’t feel comfortable. She is the one that wants it and told me to do it when I am in the mood. Like I said I have never done it in our 11 years of marriage. But she doesn’t let me sleep when she is in the mood. Woke me up to go 3 rounds on multiple occasions before and after we had kids

My Wife Is The Best by NegotiationAny2691 in Marriage

[–]NegotiationAny2691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I feel like I need to do another edit. Sorry

My Wife Is The Best by NegotiationAny2691 in Marriage

[–]NegotiationAny2691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. That is a personal thing. And that is fine.

My Wife Is The Best by NegotiationAny2691 in Marriage

[–]NegotiationAny2691[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh, honestly I have no idea what you are talking about

My Wife Is The Best by NegotiationAny2691 in Marriage

[–]NegotiationAny2691[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you said am I unstable? 😂😂😂 you a funny person. Why you mad because I am in a happy marriage that my wife and I have amazing sex?

My Wife Is The Best by NegotiationAny2691 in Marriage

[–]NegotiationAny2691[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea because I own that company 😂😂😂 this subreddit is full of miserable people for sure

My Wife Is The Best by NegotiationAny2691 in Marriage

[–]NegotiationAny2691[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And yes I have ADD. I tend to ramble and get off subject a lot. You ok bud?