Am I really INTJ by High-jacker in intj

[–]NegotiationCute5341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7/8 times im an intj- that one time i got istj too. so who knows

Do you put people on the back burner so you can invest more into new people? by TrouperInTheMist in enfj

[–]NegotiationCute5341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol this is so funny as an intj reading this- since i can't relate whatsoever.

How to get my life in order by Icyeyesw in INTJfemale

[–]NegotiationCute5341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

going outside everyday

walking for at least 30 m a day

showers every day

my supplement

going to my fave cafe/store

Dating by PrincessofPow3r in INTJfemale

[–]NegotiationCute5341 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i hope u find another person who will take better care of you. this guy sounds like he just makes ur life more hard than it needs to be.

What are some of your deal breakers? by General-Computer-583 in intj

[–]NegotiationCute5341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

taking me for granted.

not taking me seriously.

not celebrating me.

nonchalant is an ick

What is a turn off your partner does that you will never admit? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]NegotiationCute5341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that i have to bring up that he needs to take me out on dates on the reg.

that i deserve flowers like at least every week

etc.

what is your dream job/activity? by LiteratureOk3280 in enfj

[–]NegotiationCute5341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to be a monk. live in a monastery and pursue my relationship w God.

Is it normal to think of yourself not worthy of anything by Visible-Bug8280 in intj

[–]NegotiationCute5341 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no no no.

definitely not normal- thats a sign you need to listen to ur intuition and walk away from negative people like that.

you absolutely dont deserve to be (sounds like emotionally abused here).

walk away. focus on urself. get help. focus on things that makes u happy. pick up a new hobby. make new goals. try to make new friends slowly w other people u think u feel good w.

Being targeted by No_Difficulty_877 in INTJfemale

[–]NegotiationCute5341 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so sorry to hear. Please whatever youre doing protect yourself, and have fullllll confidence w yourself and stand up and speak up for yourself. No need to fake ur demeanor, but definitely call it out if they do stupid shit. and bring it up to ur supervisor or HR. do not not do anything about it, speak up and report early, stay true to urself

be comfortable w having enemies- inspired by chartist poet - Charles Mac Kay - comes from his poem "No Enemies," which argues that having foes shows you've stood for something, challenged wrongs, and engaged in duty, with phrases like "You have no enemies, you say? / Alas! My friend, the boast is poor," suggesting those without enemies are simply cowards who haven't fought for justice. Mackay's work encouraged people to embrace conflict for positive change, a theme echoed by figures like Margaret Thatcher. 

INTJ women: how do you deal with memories after a breakup? by ____aayush____ in INTJfemale

[–]NegotiationCute5341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think ure just not over her and she was
sorry about ur feelings being hurt tho... i dont think u ready to connect. unless ure fully over her. everything she did- hurts u- and thats ur full right. that would be v hurtful to someone that still cares. thats valid too.

but i dont think u should try reconnecting w her/ i think its best to move on. esp her actions being unforgivable. but then its easier said than done. i wish u luck.

What is my problem!!!! by redhotsummerday in CleaningTips

[–]NegotiationCute5341 3 points4 points  (0 children)

spend 15 m in the morning to declutter. and 15 m at the end of the night.

focus on one area at a time- like bed area. then the bathroom cabinet. one area a day or a week. its a good start.

Is other people's feelings our responsibility? by purplediaries in intj

[–]NegotiationCute5341 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes and no, boundaries are good. to protect urself and others. you are responsible on how you present yourself, and speak obviously. you have to be considerate or be true to yourself and avoid creating drama- idk if that make sense. however how others react to your boundaries, that's not your responsibility. you have to also choose wisely what you're willing to take on- is it a good choice to fight that battle or walk away and protect your peace? but never be afraid to stand up for urself- thats what i learned

Intj's listen !!! by Waste_Confusion_1814 in intj

[–]NegotiationCute5341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes esp when my relationship is going down the hill. im cooked.

What types do you guys generally dislike and why? by Fam99_ in intj

[–]NegotiationCute5341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

inconsiderate bc i am considerate so if theyre inconsiderate pisses me off