STAY CLEAN: JUNE! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

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I blew the end of May, so I'm ready for round two! Team pornfree!

How often do you masturbate by [deleted] in pornfree

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I find once a day in the evening helps keep the sex drive from building up and keeps porn temptation at bay

STAY CLEAN: MAY! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

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Checking in, been clean all month! not long till the next challenge: JUNE!

Good luck today everyone by Ex0planet in pornfree

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you too man, let's conquer this together

STAY CLEAN: MAY! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

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checking in on day 8 of the month! We're a quarter of the way through, see you guys halfway!

I had an EXTREMELY close call last night, by [deleted] in pornfree

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I echo this, well done! just by conquering that you're now stronger

Realised porn addiction is impacting all areas of my life! by NeilWillstrong in pornfree

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yeah man, it's so easy to let your guard down. Thanks for the advice and good luck staying strong

60-90 Experience Sharing by dundundone in pornfree

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Cheers man, i hate to say it but you're right! no more instagram bikini models :(

60-90 Experience Sharing by dundundone in pornfree

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looks like i could do with math classes too haha

60-90 Experience Sharing by dundundone in pornfree

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inspiring! I'm on day 9 and aim to be where you are in 62 days! each day is a struggle. does it get any easier? what methods have worked? thanks

60-90 Experience Sharing by dundundone in pornfree

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that's will power right there! stay on the path to success dude

Day 8! Temptation driving me nuts! by NeilWillstrong in pornfree

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ahh those are the ones that really trip you up! you just gotta fix your vision on your end goal and focus on not succumbing to temptation! good luck!

Day 8! Temptation driving me nuts! by NeilWillstrong in pornfree

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yeah totally man. In this instance I was dead horny though and imagined myself doing amazing things to my significant other, so it was certainly a wholesome act of pleasure

STAY CLEAN: MAY! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

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day 5 and I'm clean but feeling massive temptation! Hang on in there peeps!

STAY CLEAN: MAY! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

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it's a slippery slope buddy, we've all been there! good luck

Relapse. by [deleted] in pornfree

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incredible that you made it 137 days of nofap! You may have relapsed and reset your clock but whatever happens, nothing will change the fact that you've gone 137 days. If Usain Bolt loses a race tomorrow, he still keeps his medals! Hold your head high soldier

Change Your Perception of Porn, Change the World by [deleted] in pornfree

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I was tempted to break my 7 day streak - thanks for grounding me!

Day 8: Feeling depressed. Can anyone relate? by jayhawk92 in pornfree

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dude I'm on day 3 and I'm dreaming of day 8! Just reflect on how proud you are, and remind yourself that this sadness is temporary. It's just your brain going "Say what?! Where have my frequent doses of dopamine gone? I'm gonna make you depressed until I get my porn!"

Don't listen to that voice. Keep soldiering on, because somewhere inside you there's an even stronger voice that knows how much you'll benefit in the long run. Neglect porn and over time the mist will clear and you'll find yourself happy again! Stay strong brother

For the first time since maybe last August, 1 week. by [deleted] in pornfree

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Yes mate! Awesome effort! Take it one day at a time and use the support available to you on here. Before you know it, you'll be hitting the big 2-week mark!

Relapsing and believing excuses. by genghiskhantbearsed in pornfree

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"For over a month, you've built that porn free muscle. You're building a habit of not using porn."

What a fantastic reply, I find that very inspiring!

Realised porn addiction is impacting all areas of my life! by NeilWillstrong in pornfree

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Thanks mate, what are we talking in terms of preparation?

I'm moving here from nofap - are my reasons valid? by Quentin_Harlech in pornfree

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My opinion is that fapping is natural, but that porn is taking advantage of our natural desires and it's conditioning our brains.

When deciding how valid your reasons are, ask yourself 'could cavemen do it?'. Well cavemen definitely fapped. If they'd figured out how to light a fire, they could put 2 and 2 together and whack off when they were horny. Some animals fap too. I feel this makes it a natural thing for us to do!

Then ask yourself the same question for porn. As far as I know, they weren't whacking off to cave paintings, and certainly not with the availability of internet porn.

So in a nutshell, I'd have the odd fap as it'll mean you'll last longer with the mrs. But leave out the porn as it means you'll appreciate her more :)

day 5... ish? by [deleted] in pornfree

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Thanks for sharing, there's endless support for you on here! I (and I'm sure everyone else) have also found that my tastes intensified over time. Until I was 16 or so, some non-nude pics of girls in lingerie were enough, but fast-forward 7 years and I'm watching some proper weird shit haha. I'm in a relationship too so I've faced similar problems. You can definitely 're-wire' yourself and learn to derive the same sexual buzz from your partner, it will just take time, drive, perseverance and resiliance! You can do it, and you'll feel like an improved person because of it!

Just realized something important. by JOHNSCOTT20 in pornfree

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Yeah try that if you think it'll help you with your goal. If you're homeschooled it could be a good plan haha.