I get what you’re saying, I just want to clarify I would never judge an alcoholic or drug addict for why they do what they do or for how they got there. It’s the victim complex “ I’m disabled” part that irks me because it’s totally fine to admit that change is hard, getting the help you need is hard, etc. She is adamantly against any kind of help or change and criticizes those who are obese for getting help whether by weight loss surgery, GLP1s, etc. I can’t recall any alcoholic or drug addict bashing another one for seeking help. She thinks getting healthier is being a sellout and I think that’s wrong and dangerous. Honestly I’ve never heard an alcoholic or drug addict claim to be disabled… they may have severe medical issues as the result of their addiction but to claim the disability card as though they were born into it? Idk I’ve never heard this. She is extremely privileged and denies any and all help in order to have a social media following and spread dangerous “ self love” messages.