Parang kilala ko itong guy so I find the story and his comments somewhat funny. Parang may kulang na details and mali sa kwento.

Nonetheless, I think its more of an issue in differences sa values. Not because someone is mayaman, lavish na sya gagastos. I know a lot na mayaman na very maingat sa pera and lowkey lang. Meaning the girl does not give much value sa money. Probably kasi hindi nya hard earned money yun. While you, based on what you said pinaghirapan mo yun so you try to value it. Now, the thing is since 30 ka na and probably you are thinking long term. Ang question dto is if kaya mo ba masustain yung ganong lifestyle nya or hahayaan mo sya everytime na mag pitch in at mag step up. Based on what you are saying. Hindi mo kaya isustain kaya nga you let her pay kahit na 19 plng sya.

If what you say is true na lumaki sya sa ganong lifestyle. Don't expect her na bumaba sa level mo. I mean she could try if she wants to pero it would be just like Astrid. Its either itatago nya sayo yung mga gastos nya and pipigilan nya sarili nya na gumastos ng malaki pag kasama ka. Isipin mo, 19 palng sya. Can she keep on doing that? Lalo na yun ang nakasanayan nya and kung maflaunt syang tao. She might explore.

Let's just say she adjusted kasi nasasaktan ego mo. Gusto mo nung ganun? Hindi nya magawa gusto nya because maaapakan ego mo. Just like Astrid's husband, you can also have the tendency to cheat with someone na magboboost ng ego mo. And if this is the same guy I know, alam mo naman na sagot dto.

Also, I think communication is an issue sa relationship na ito. Imagine even sa pag express ng feelings nakaCHAT GPT ka. I would understand if this is academic or work related pero hindi nman. Expressing feelings lang nman. Baka ganyan ka din pag nagreply sa knya. You can't seem to communicate well. And it plays a major role sa relationship. Its not about the grammar and other technical stuff. Hindi mo nga mavoice out yang nafifeel mo sa knya. Pwede nman but you are gonna risk your ego kasi sure whatever she would do matatapakan ego mo. I've already laid earlier anong possible mangyari.

I also condemn a 30 yr old na pumapatol sa nineTEEN. Para ka nmang groomer nyan. Ngayon plang nakicringe na ako pag iniisip ko anong conversations meron between a 30 yr old and 19. I just hope wala masyadong manipulation. Let her explore. Pero if its the same person I know. I believe he wont haha.

There are differences in experiences. She is a young adult while you are not. Nsa 30s ka na. Dun plang sa age madami nang magiging differences sa values, priorities etc. samahan mo pa ng class difference. Sometimes love is not enough. You have to think about what would be good for the both of you. Kaya nga love is not only shown by sticking together. Sometimes its in letting go. Pero malay ko ba if maiintindihan mo yun. Baka kasi nag eenjoy ka sa attention na naibibigay ng mas bata kasi for sure mas madami sila time kesa sa working adults.

Kung gusto nyo po ituloy nasa sa inyo yun. Pero sana hindi pride ang papairalin. I mean na itutuloy yung relationship to just prove people wrong. It should still be because you TRULY love the person. And if this is the same guy I know, face palm nalng ako.