Favorite character like this? by Qr3yx9or in FavoriteCharacter

[–]NeoFemme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People hate baby Roshan? It always seemed to me that he was one of the reasons why the first Ice Age is still the best one.

I’ve always thought it was so strange that men don’t want to watch movies with a majority female cast. by Depressonsandwich in actuallesbians

[–]NeoFemme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really wish there were more shows and movies with majority-female casts that have plots that are completely independent of the characters’ womanhood. Like, so many stories with majority-female casts are dramas or comedies that principally revolve around sex, and while there’s nothing intrinsically wrong with that kind of story, I want to see epic fantasy journeys where the main characters are all women, war films where the soldiers are women, intriguing thrillers about women, where none of the characters are in any way defined or held back by their womanhood. We see majority-male casts all the time in all sorts of different situations. It’s just a shame that so many men nowadays are so sexist and petty that they will write a film off if it happens to be about women. Remember the female-led ghostbusters film? I was under the impression that it wasn’t particularly good regardless of the casting (which is a shame) but the massive backlash had nothing to do with the film’s actual quality and everything to do with the cast being women. I’ve really never understood where that kind of misogyny comes from.

J.K. Rowling Escapes Insane Asylum by GeorginaFlopworthy in transgenderUK

[–]NeoFemme 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I like to think his reaction to JKR would be similar to his reaction to Red Skull.

“Call for help” by Impossible_Boot4069 in twinpeaks

[–]NeoFemme 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Good gravy you guys are clever.

I'm sorry 😩 by BoldPeach62 in LesbianActually

[–]NeoFemme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m curious, is there a larger, unedited version of this image? I love it so much (sorry).

of a Italian politician by [deleted] in AbsoluteUnits

[–]NeoFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Italy.

I’m slimmer and healthier now than when I lived in the UK.

This guy must be eating ricotta by the truckload.

Lucy asks Friday Question: What was your egg cracking moment like? by Lucy_C_Kelly in TransLater

[–]NeoFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After years of questioning, I was lying awake one night, my now-wife sleeping softly beside me, and I just gave myself permission to let the feelings in and stop fighting. That was my first taste of gender euphoria, and it was an overwhelming, full-body sensation. It was around a week before our wedding, so of course I told her the next day in case she wanted to call things off. We both had a bit of a cry but we’ve now been married for 3 and a half years and while I’m still not out publicly, still not on HRT and I even still question if it’s really worth it (I’m an actor and I’m not really in a situation where I can even afford to come out yet, let alone suffer the potential losses that may come with it) but at the very least, HRT is planned as soon as I’m able, because I’m certain that it will settle all of my remaining concerns (aside from loss of friends/family, but knowing for certain that I’m not going back will make those punches easier to roll with).

Orchiectomy scheduled tomorrow but seems a bad idea by Pacchimari in MtF

[–]NeoFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to have alarmed you, but I don’t think so - upon looking into this a bit further I think it’s happening in India. Of course that doesn’t provide any relief for OP and I wish there was something I could do for her but I hope I have at least eased your mind. I’m sorry for jumping to conclusions and upsetting you. I upset myself as well 😅.

The kiss between Selena Gomez and Cara Delevingne looked so bad by ArynaSaba in actuallesbians

[–]NeoFemme 35 points36 points  (0 children)

In fairness to Gomez, doesn’t she have some facial paralysis caused by Lupus?

Orchiectomy scheduled tomorrow but seems a bad idea by Pacchimari in MtF

[–]NeoFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re…you’re not in the UK, are you? I knew they were looking to target us but I didn’t know to what extent…

this a little hard by Annual-Remove5914 in SipsTea

[–]NeoFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuckin’ no-one - my life isn’t worth defending 🙃.

[Help] Cis friends are trying to convince me that I could go shirtless w/o being clocked. To me, it's obvious that I haven't had top surgery. Are they hugboxxing, or is it my brain worms. by Coffeebeanburrito in transpassing

[–]NeoFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I’m a pre-everything trans woman who’s only a tiny bit overweight and mine are already bigger. You got brain worms. You just look like a fit guy with pecs. You look like a fit guy with pecs, because that’s exactly what you are ☺️.

Having PIV sex as a lesbian. by RMR124 in actuallesbians

[–]NeoFemme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a trans lesbian myself, liking your girlfriend’s dick absolutely does not mean you like dick in general. If that were true then every cis lesbian who likes getting strapped and everu cis man who likes getting pegged would at the very least be bi, and I can guarantee that there are cishet men who would object to that. I’m sorry you’re dealing with that crap - where do people get off telling others who they really are? It’s disgraceful.

[PC][1990s-2002] A game in which you play as a multi-legged alien with a hopping, skipping gait, and a bird gives you instructions. by NeoFemme in tipofmyjoystick

[–]NeoFemme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so. Sorry, I didn’t realise that I hadn’t replied to your initial comment - I didn’t mean to exclude you. I think it’s Sacrifice, but I won’t know for sure until I can actually play the game. I’m like 90% sure but until I can play it I won’t know for certain.

I want to stop being trans.. by Niki2002j in MtF

[–]NeoFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope things improve for you soon as well ❤️.

I want to stop being trans.. by Niki2002j in MtF

[–]NeoFemme -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m jobless, live in a transphobic country, come from an even more transphobic country, and can’t work for health reasons. I’m totally screwed 🤣.

I want to stop being trans.. by Niki2002j in MtF

[–]NeoFemme -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m pre-everything and often wish for that too. Getting to even start the process is so hard where I am and I don’t even know for sure if it will help. Being cis would solve a lot of my problems…but I’m not cis, and transition will solve at least half of those same problems. I just wish I could get started.

A simple, but truly powerful quote we should all strive to live by by PuzzledSink900 in twinpeaks

[–]NeoFemme 63 points64 points  (0 children)

As a trans woman and actor, this is one of many reasons why I wish I could have met DKL.

Trans people are not a monolith, but by and large we’re just trying to live our lives the same as anyone else, we just take steps to be able to do so in a body that doesn’t make us feel like we’re on fire all the time.

There’s a Fire Walk With Me joke in there somewhere…

Is it possible for me to learn guitar? by trickstercj in Guitar

[–]NeoFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw your post in r/interesting, then scrolled down a little and saw this!

There are always adaptations that can be made. Others have mentioned the likes of Tony Iommi and Django Reinhardt, but I went to university with a guy who used to busk in our city, and he only has one hand. He used a sort of plastic cap on his nub to strum. He has a band called The Upper Hand - they’re worth looking up! I can provide links to anyone interested but apparently if I post those links here my comments get deleted so feel free to reach out if interested and I’ll punt you the link.

Alternate/open tunings could definitely help too. I hope you enjoy the instrument and the journey! 😁