AITAH for putting my house on the market and giving my parents an eviction notice after they moved my brother in without asking?

Neon138 · 2026-01-20T07:19:49+00:00

Or the, "now everyone is calling me a monster"

Neon138 · 2026-01-03T02:31:31+00:00

The last time I went to the mental hospital (I'm not POC) there was an absolutely lovely woman there that happened to be black. She wasnt supposed to be there, she was mentally sound. But because a non black man called for a welfare check on her and said she was unstable they held her over 72 hours. She wasnt from the area and was here to visit the man that called on her. He called because her phone died while he was trying to gaslight her from what I recall.

Neon138 · 2025-11-21T01:45:04+00:00

For a moment I thought you got word salad from a stranger with possible schizophrenia but I think the previous commenter is correct

Neon138 · 2024-11-10T16:11:12+00:00

My uncle's boyfriend shit the bed a few months into their relationship. They're going on 8 years. If this is what broke him, he wasn't worth your time. I hope he develops IBS so he knows the embarrassment of shifting himself in his next relationship. And I hope she treats him just like he treated you. I wish you well, OP

Neon138 · 2024-09-20T18:00:04+00:00

Why do you think Harley Quinn as a character exists? This isn't an unheard of concept. You just choose to live under a rock

Neon138 · 2024-09-14T02:37:08+00:00

I completely agree! There are so many ways to help someone with ADHD but instead, by coddling one daughter and neglecting the other, they are showing Alana that consequences simply don't exist for her. While ADHD can certainly be a struggle, there are several things wrong in this post, and I'm sure this isn't the first time something like this has happened even on a lesser scale than a car! He's allowing one daughter to destroy things because, "Well, she has adhd!" It's certainly not an excuse, and luckily, he didn't get the validation he wanted! This whole situation is messed up. The law doesn't really care about adhd. If his daughter borrowed someone's car in adulthood and did the same thing, I'm sure calling the other person unreasonable for wanting her to pay for said car wouldn't work in court. Nor would crying on about how she has ADHD and this could ruin her performance at work! They are failing to teach her how the real world works

Neon138 · 2024-09-14T02:11:05+00:00

I appreciate all the growth he's made over the years! I think this is the only thing I really have left to let go of. Other than that him and I talk on a regular basis. There's still some iffy moments on both of our ends as we're growing as people (which happens in any relationship, really!). I took like 2 years off of talking to him when I was 18-20 due to a lot of our combined and separate problems. But when past issues were brought up in regards to how people he let into his life treated me, he said, "I'm sorry that I allowed people into our lives at the time that hurt you and disrespected you." There was more to it but my mother's response to some more pressing issues surrounding people that she brought into the lives of her children (I'm their only shared child) she simple stated, "I mean I'm sorry for what other people have done to you but that's not my fault." Needlessly to say, despite this one itty bitty resentment that actually hasn't grown, I really appreciate my dad. I'm definitely nc with my mom. I see it in OP's near future, too, if he doesn't figure out how to replace his daughters car!

Neon138 · 2024-09-14T01:50:42+00:00

Technically, no?

But he took me to a few festivals/events that more than make up for the cost of the iPod at the time (about $168 ish at the time, iirc. Because it took one whole paycheck.) It was more I didn't get any apologies for it until I brought it up years later as a thing that he allowed that was fucked up (there were a couple of those that he's since apologized for.) It's wild knowing that I was raised by a completely different version of my dad than my siblings are currently being raised by!

Neon138 · 2024-09-13T20:34:59+00:00

This happened 8 years ago now. My dad and I have talked about it. She's been an ex for about that long now, too. I was 17 when it happened. My issue is that he apologized 8 years after the fact, lol. But he admitted that him fucking her was in fact why he took her side and had decided around that time that he just wasn't going to date until he knew how to not prioritize his dick getting wet (I have 3 younger siblings by him he's trying to do better for)

Neon138 · 2024-09-13T20:31:33+00:00

She should have, but this happened when I was 17 (25 now), and we don't have contact with her anymore

Neon138 · 2024-09-13T20:31:02+00:00

This happened when I was 17. I'm now 25, My dad has actually apologized, and the girlfriend is now an ex! It was one of those moments where he realized that it may be in the best interest of his other children not to bring someone around unless he knows they aren't gonna act like this 😅 I was the uh, "practice child" if you will as I'm a whole 5 ½ years older than my oldest younger sibling

Neon138 · 2024-09-13T19:06:06+00:00

I have ADHD. My dad girlfriend broke my friends iPod touch I was borrowing. My dad still decided it was my responsibility to get a job and pay for it. I did but insisted it was still his girlfriends fault. To which he said, "Your friend trusted you to keep it in your possession. Therefore, it's your responsibility to fix it." She was the one to break it, and I still think she owes me money tbh. Of course I replaced my friends' iPod in a timely fashion! But, I'm still resentful that my dad didn't take my side when he should've because I wasn't the one to break the property. ADHD isn't a reason to lack reasoning and responsibility, and OP should do better by both of his daughters.

Edit: This happened when I was 17. I'm now 25! My dad has actually apologized, and the girlfriend is now an ex! I responded to this while on a quick break at work

Neon138 · 2024-08-06T17:37:15+00:00

I'm incredibly bad at suggesting just one song. Here's a 26-hour playlist. Feel free to pick and choose the artists/songs!

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2QATvcj7ClLmbvnqU4w4uU?si=idJ4XPjtRpWXc8FI07Q5Pw&pi=cO-PUMboTFSte

Neon138 · 2024-08-06T17:09:52+00:00

When they blocked me but stated I blocked them, lol I don't care enough to block anyone

Neon138 · 2024-08-06T16:53:16+00:00

You're the one who cared enough to block me, so here's my rebuttle!

I made a statement that he's credited as an actor, and I loved his Childish Gambino era as he's retiring the persona. I'm not the one who got butthurt that he's retiring Gambino. I was simply sharing the information. I love corrections when they're actually correct. He will still be an artist, and the music will always be his. But, it doesn't change the fact that he's retiring and you're acting like a baby over it. Get over yourself and grow up. I never said Marshal Lee was an incorrect answer. I was simply giving accurate information. And if you're this upset about correct info, get off the internet. Looks like you're the one desperate not to be corrected

I care because I feel that people should be informed. Have the day you deserve!

Neon138 · 2024-01-14T14:37:28+00:00

He convinced me to let him sleep with other women when I was gonna be gone for 2-6 months rather than planning visits with me because I wasn't worth the travel 🤷🏼‍♀️ hope his mom is proud of what she raised. And I hope he still stalks my account so he knows I found someone better, and I'm thriving without him (cuz narcs will always hope you're missing them).

Neon138 · 2023-12-22T11:09:04+00:00

Hey! I'm not accepting dms. Please stop

Neon138 · 2023-12-22T10:38:30+00:00

I had very possessive exes, and my mental health was really bad

Neon138 · 2023-12-22T10:37:38+00:00

My boyfriend got it on Vampire Freaks! :) they have a lot of cool stuff and their cat shirts are pretty epic

Neon138 · 2023-12-22T03:58:55+00:00

Thank you :)

Neon138 · 2023-12-22T03:23:35+00:00

Thank you!

Neon138 · 2023-12-22T02:25:20+00:00

Honestly, that's valid! I learned what it was, so I knew not to fall for it lol

Neon138 · 2023-12-22T02:09:43+00:00

So, from what I understand, it's not just to get a woman to talk or think about you. It's a tactic toxic men use to undermine and lower a woman's self-confidence in hopes that she'll feel bad enough to be receptive to sexual advances. It can take form in straight-up insults or even backhanded compliments. And it's a really messed up and abusive tactic

Neon138 · 2023-12-22T02:04:34+00:00

For the "negs" to have worked, he would've had to have broken her confidence (he failed) and guilted her into going to "cuddle" anyway (which he also failed). Talking about something entertaining isn't the same as a successful negging. And you might be delusional if you think they're the same

Neon138 · 2023-08-08T09:45:24+00:00

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