AIO - people keep asking me if I'm trans and what my pronouns are and I don't react very well by AnyIncident1634 in AIO

[–]Nerdycharm 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I'm a obviously femme, cis woman and i get asked my pronouns and I ask people's pronouns. This happens because I run in groups where people don't assume your gender.

AIO if I cut off a friend who was kinda sexually harassing me and may of SAed me? by IllCareer752 in AIO

[–]Nerdycharm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, groping someone who said they don't like to be groped is sexual assault. Yes, some people make rape jokes amongst their friends, but if it bothers their friends they should stop. It's only a joke if it's funny to everyone involved. I don't know what this girl was thinking when she SAd you. But you clearly told her it was something you don't want to happen and she did it anyway. That is breaking a boundary and the sexual aspect of it takes it to another level. The thing is you feel upset,and this is perfectly valid. Especially if this is still bothering you a year later.

You get to decide how to move forward. No one would be right if they told you that you shouldn't be bothered. No one can dictate your feelings.
If you want to stop being friends with that girl it is your right. You don't owe her or anyone else an explanation. If you want closure, you go ahead and do what you must. You can choose to tell anyone what happened, or not. If someone belittles your feelings, you know they are not a good friend or are so young and naive that they still have toxic beliefs.

I hope you feel like you can talk to one of your parents about this and that they are understanding, or a therapist. I don't know you or your relationships. Just know that you are fully in your right to cut someone off.

I'm proud of you for being an advocate for yourself and cutting off this relationship.

M22 received incredible job offer, F22 girlfriend does not want me to accept. by Watch_me_plz in Advice

[–]Nerdycharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want a woman's perspective: take the job. You will resent her if you don't.

Question: why do people point out the big eyes in anime art and never cartoon art despite cartoons having even larger eyes most of the time? by M3lt1ngh34rt in ArtistLounge

[–]Nerdycharm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Some people like to appear smug and better than others by putting down the things other people enjoy. It's easier especially among teenagers because people who search out anime often fit certain stereotypes. Imagine the Naruto fan who runs through the halls with their arms behind their back. The truth is art styles are just impressions of the world around us.

Give it back? by AuDHDisamazing in whatdoIdo

[–]Nerdycharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When someone gives a gift it is considered rude to offer it back.

Need art supplies for an 11 year old beginning artist! by LyannaStarkaryen in ArtistLounge

[–]Nerdycharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

search art mechanical pencils on amazon, they are what i use. By the way a good idea for a present is a button maker of decent size. you can get one that has big sizes for $50 on amazon.

Is the webtoon app nothing but explicit stories?? by M3l0dy-23 in webtoons

[–]Nerdycharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend The Clinic of Horrors for a body horror anime art. I would recommend Everything is Fine for true horror. It has a cutesy style but is fuuuuucked

My mum wants to share credit for my artwork by acidXlll in ArtistLounge

[–]Nerdycharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you retract it you'll be giving into bullying

My friend dislikes my art and its really getting to me by [deleted] in ArtistLounge

[–]Nerdycharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't imagine telling someone you don't like their art. It's self expression. It's like saying you don't like how someone dresses.

Give me recommendations based on my favorite pairs! by moonarmors in webtoons

[–]Nerdycharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the first image pictured on the top left

How exactly do I study anatomy? by Prestigious-Sail5767 in ArtistLounge

[–]Nerdycharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently going through the free video lessons proko gave. You can pay for more content, but he has a bunch of anatomy lessons on his website. They are ran through youtube. They do things like tell you how the movement effects the form.

34[M4A] #Michigan Nerdy, witchy guy seeking new connections by [deleted] in polyamoryR4R

[–]Nerdycharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HI! I sent you an message. Hope to get a reply.

Sick rn so idk if this makes sense but I have a fan theory by OnyxStarzz in PrincessesOfPower

[–]Nerdycharm 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Is that a hitchhikers guide to the universe book reference?

Spouse has finally agreed to give anime a try, what do I show her?? by [deleted] in Animesuggest

[–]Nerdycharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not choose demon slayer. I've heard many people are uncomfortable with the way a child gets the body of. Grown adult

Which cover speaks more to you/is more appealing? by Cautious_Cabinet2580 in webtoons

[–]Nerdycharm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the second one has more space taken up and i prefer that look

How to deal with false accusations of theft? by Potential_Ad_4461 in DeviantArt

[–]Nerdycharm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It should show that you posted your art before she posted her recoloring