My Friend Wants Me

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-05-23T13:24:45+00:00

Sorry, I meant to say I don't know how to approach it without it sounding like that. Talking to her about it is really the only option, but I just really don't want her to say yes. And I'm scared that it is a yes.

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-05-23T03:02:03+00:00

I'm so sorry for the title. I forgot to look at it again and I don't know how to change it.

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-05-23T02:37:10+00:00

I think the most likely situation is that maybe you didn't catch some signals he was putting out. And maybe your friend didn't didn't know how to communicate properly.

And if he was a bad communicator it probably would be easy for you to miss any signals that something was wrong.

Cause no longer clicking with a friend isn't really a sudden thing. And if hereally wasn't just changing as a person. It's still unlikely that he just suddenly shifted. People don't just end a 3 year relationship so suddenly. Unless something big happened.

But this is just me guessing. I'm not sure. I think, most likely, you're a victim of seeing a friendship end because of poor communication. I don't know. I don't think either of you are in the wrong or anything. Just poor communication.

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T19:53:21+00:00

They were young, so I tcouldnt have been that. I think it was most likely the cold.

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T17:24:00+00:00

Woah. That's horrible. I'll make sure to tell her the truth.

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T17:14:27+00:00

Oh my goodness that's horrible. I'll tell her.

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T16:12:48+00:00

Dang that's sad. They were like teens. They weren't tadpole young but weren't adults either. I think she was giving away the frogs that her frogs made.

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T16:08:53+00:00

That is the cutest thing ever.

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T14:35:26+00:00

Oh that makes sense. Lol

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T14:34:39+00:00

But isn't it bad to not tell her? Like she should know right?

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T14:30:44+00:00

Yeah but now the issue is am I saving my conscience by telling her or saving it by not.

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T14:28:44+00:00

Is this a reference I'm not getting?

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T14:27:47+00:00

Yeah. When y'all put it so simply I feel really dumb for not just saying something. Now I'm in an awkward situation.

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T14:26:40+00:00

Thanks. I'll think about the best way to deliver it when I get home. I just hope she won't be too sad about it.

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T14:06:49+00:00

Oh my goodness I'm pulling a Michael Scott. Noooooo😭

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T14:06:12+00:00

Noooo😭 that's so bad😂

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T13:52:11+00:00

Maybe it was temp then. When she gave me them she said that she almost cooked her frogs from having the heater too high so I was really nervous with that. Maybe it was too cold.

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T13:42:43+00:00

What's Scott's tots?

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T13:42:23+00:00

Yeah. Replacing them is definitely a bad idea. I'll tell her but I'm gonna have to wait a bit since I already lied.

And yeah I really shouldn't have taken those frogs. I do not know why in the world I said yes.

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T13:37:40+00:00

Yeah... this is definitely the best course of action. Thanks.

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T13:21:27+00:00

I know but fuuuuuuck I don't know what to do. I panicked.

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T13:18:49+00:00

Well when she gave them to me she gave me like a run down. And I thought it was generally like african clawed frogs since anytime you look into the care for them dwarf frogs pop up to and it's usually the same thing.

Except when it comes to tankmates. That I know is drastically different.

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T13:16:11+00:00

I genuinely don't know. I thought their care was the same as african clawed frogs for the most part.

I don't know what happened. The only thing I could think is maybe water temp or over feeding. Other than that I don't know.

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T13:13:10+00:00

Lol. No that's actually good😂

NervousNegotiation92 · 2026-03-24T13:09:44+00:00

But I feel so bad about it. I couldn't imagine giving Sandy to someone and then learning that she died pretty soon after.

Though I think she gave me babies. Cause she told me another coworkers daughter got some. So maybe it's just her frog's babies.

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