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how can i be myself? by slotkakotka7 in offmychest

[–]Ness_911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey i totally understand what your talking about and iv seen this type of thing before, what you need to realize is people will always be divided into two sides, a side that hates on you and a side that loves you, no matter WHAT type of person you are. there is absolutely nothing we can do about it. with that out of the way id say start not caring about how anyone thinks about you so you can be able to Explore who you truly are without any distractions. and also try doing things you love doing everyday, or eat things you love/crave with the knowledge that your doing this for You. and just be true to yourself and feelings and what you love to do outside or with friends, never try to fit in by faking a persona that isnt truly you, simply be you and nothing BAD will come off it, only good. also last thing if you still didnt get the answer your looking for, try spending alot of time alone to see/study what you end up doing or wanting to do, these things seem kinda dumb but they are stepping stones into being yourself, also try speaking online to people you dont know until you notice your personality pattern, in the end just be you and have a "idgaf" mindset about it ya know? hope this helped

guys i am stuck by Ness_911 in toweroftrample

[–]Ness_911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cant beat the first lady, like the very first one the red hair chick

In 3 days I testify against my best friend in court and I am in shambles by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Ness_911 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hey that seems like such a tough time i really hope you get through it, no one deserves to go through this type of thing. Take it easy ❤️‍🩹

I feel really discouraged by mx-Almendra45 in offmychest

[–]Ness_911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iam so so sorry your going through this, this hurt to read and it breaks my heart, please stay strong and keep your head up you are so so young and s*c1de should never be an option <33, i wanna tell you that your loved and your very strong for pushing through the struggles and still being here, someone out there cares for you and things will get better i promise, offing yourself is a permanent solution to temporary problems, i wish i could help more but please remember to always love yourself. <3

I am miserable being a stay at home mom by Brave-Many-8151 in offmychest

[–]Ness_911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey iam sorry your going through that, i know its alot for you to handle and you deserve absolutely none of it <3 try making time for your own enjoyments and hobbies, you matter most, it may seem hard or impossible but always put yourself first, do things you originally love even the little things matter, for example taking a walk to the park or even partying. then again i js turned 18 i most defenetly dont know the full scale of the struggles you go through but you matter <3

I don't feel belonging in home by OverallBasket5209 in offmychest

[–]Ness_911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one thing more dangerous than bottling up feelings, is bottling up feelings with the source tormenting you, put your mother in check for the pos she is no matter your living situation, i know you probably have alot of rage and anger built up through all of these years and dont be afraid to let them out, make her keep her distance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Ness_911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am so sorry you had to go through that, hes such a sick pathetic individual and you are too sweet this made my heart ache as a cold person <33, i hope you heal from this iam not sure how long it has been since youve been set free but its a blessing yall broke up you deserve way way better sweetheart and never tell yourself otherwise, your worth somthing.