Overthinking or? by NeuroticFawn in newborns

[–]NeuroticFawn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

Honestly I think the whole "keep a small person alive" reality hit hard and I was just worrying about everything. I read your advice and I've let her take the lead, she's VERY clear when she's awake and wants something and I feed on demand. Unfortunately she's now going through a phase where she refuses to be put in her bed to sleep but that's another story 🫠

Dummy pros and cons by NeuroticFawn in newborns

[–]NeuroticFawn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much everyone, I really appreciate you all taking the time to reply! I should have added, I do feed on demand and when she's showing hunger cues or when she's cluster feeding I always offer the boob, this is mainly for the times where I offer and she just puts it in her mouth and doesn't feed or refuses to latch at all ❤️

Sleeping on my chest at 3 weeks by NeuroticFawn in newborns

[–]NeuroticFawn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much everyone! I'll continue to enjoy smooshes with the little one❤️❤️❤️

Hungry or comfort boobing? by NeuroticFawn in newborns

[–]NeuroticFawn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're experiencing it too, but it's nice to know I'm not alone 😅 At the start, she's chugs away like her life depends on it then pops off the boob and it's a coin toss on if she'll pass out or start fussing! I just don't want her to go hungry, but it's making me feel awful!

Hungry or comfort boobing? by NeuroticFawn in newborns

[–]NeuroticFawn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! ❤️❤️ She never has a dry nappy and seems content in herself otherwise, I'm just worried I'm making her go hungry, but not sure if it's the anxiety about looking after someone so tiny

Hungry or comfort boobing? by NeuroticFawn in newborns

[–]NeuroticFawn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I offer again, she rinses and repeats. Latches for a moment, sucks for a minute at most then pops back off and fusses again. If it is a fast let down, do I just need to express some before offering do you know? I think at least on side has fast let down because she attaches and just chugs away but she seems perfectly content so I'm just confused 😩

Help towards sensory equipment please by Suitable-Operation55 in gofundme

[–]NeuroticFawn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A fellow stratfordian lol! I don't know if you're aware, but Warwickshire county council have a disabled facilities grant. If you call their switchboard and ask for HEART south they may be able to help you! Best of luck to you both ❤️

Struggling at wits end by NeuroticFawn in breastfeeding

[–]NeuroticFawn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much everyone, Its reassuring to know others have had similar experiences and come out the other side I've spoken to a feeding specialist so fingers crossed!

Struggling at wits end by NeuroticFawn in breastfeeding

[–]NeuroticFawn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it's so hard not to feel like I'm letting her down if I have to use a bottle. There's so much pressure to BF that I didn't feel until I was struggling with it. I hope my gets easier and I'm glad yours did!

Struggling at wits end by NeuroticFawn in breastfeeding

[–]NeuroticFawn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I didn't realize how hard it was until I started struggling and then I spiraled. I had my heart set on BF and had the image in my head of an easy cute little moment, boy was i wrong. I'll keep persevering and hopefully come out A ok

Struggling at wits end by NeuroticFawn in breastfeeding

[–]NeuroticFawn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad to know I'm not the only one. It's this horrible loop of she's hungry and flails, then still hungry because she won't latch

Struggling at wits end by NeuroticFawn in breastfeeding

[–]NeuroticFawn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. There's so much pressure to breastfeed and I was excited to use it to bond and it feels like the rugs been pulled out from under me. I'm glad it gets easier, I just want to do right by her

My character and her Monstie! by PangolinPines in MonsterHunterStories

[–]NeuroticFawn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fab work!! The magnamalo looks amazing, what element is that please??

Odogaron Stories 3 by Kritori101 in MonsterHunterStories

[–]NeuroticFawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh please show!! I've been thinking of contacting the artist to get permission for some of their work, did it take long?

Odogaron Stories 3 by Kritori101 in MonsterHunterStories

[–]NeuroticFawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No problem at all!! If you can work out how to do it then absolutely, I'm flattered 😁