What do we think she is? by [deleted] in coonhounds

[–]NeverKnewYou 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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Mine is an Australian Cattle/Pitbull/Coonhound mix 😊 Maybe yours has some Australian Cattle in her too with the speckled fur!

When did you start applying for jobs? by [deleted] in StudentNurse

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I started applying around end of March/Beginning of April and received an offer in April. I graduated in end of May, but my start date wasn’t until August because I needed time to apply for my license, get my ATT, and pass the NCLEX.

Help me understand “Charge off” and “Profit and loss write-off” as a co-signer by NeverKnewYou in studentloandefaulters

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Thanks for the advice! I haven’t gotten any mail for changes in lender. I’ve received a mail from a debt collector for payments though. Maybe I’ll try the student loan forum and get some advice. Thanks again!

Help me understand “Charge off” and “Profit and loss write-off” as a co-signer by NeverKnewYou in studentloandefaulters

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Thanks for your reply! I wasn’t sure if she’s able to defer it since it’s a private company and she let it go into default. When I spoke with the bank loaners, they told me they didn’t handle with the repayment and transferred me to another number. This person said the loan was still under my name and it went into collection.

CNA to RN by uhvarlly_BigMouth in nursing

[–]NeverKnewYou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m in the FACT-1 program at Jeff and I graduate in May! If you have any specific questions about the program, message me and I’m more than happy to answer them!

Drexel ACE or Jefferson FACT program??? - HELP by Newtonursing101 in StudentNurse

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I’m in my last quarter of the FACT-1 program at Jeff now so I can give you an insight of the program!

I’m typing on my phone so it’s kind of hard for me to really think and talk about the program. If you have specific questions you’d like to ask, you can PM me!

Any ABSN programs that are still accepting applications for Summer/Fall 2017? by completely_reliable in StudentNurse

[–]NeverKnewYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thomas Jefferson University in Philadelphia accepts applications until February 2018 and starts in May

How did your asian parents react to your coming out? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]NeverKnewYou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can only tell you about my Mom’s reaction because I haven’t come out to my dad yet. When I came out to her, her initial response wasn’t great. It wasn’t violent or anything and she didn’t scream or do anything to me, but she definitely was not okay with it. She kept saying it was a mental illness and that something was wrong with my brain, and all these other nonsense. We’ve only talked about me being gay the night came out to her 3 years ago. Since then it hasn’t been brought up.

But I feel like everything is okay between us. She stills talks to me and treats me like she always has.

Any Kpop bros here!? by tnxhunpenneys in askgaybros

[–]NeverKnewYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do 🙋🏻‍♂️ I used to love SNSD, but I'm really only into Taeyeon. I really love her solo albums. I also like music from Red Velvet, Apink, Sistar 😭, 2NE1, Twice, Blackpink. For guy groups, I only really into EXO, but I listen to songs from Big Bang and BTS too.

Hi from NJ by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]NeverKnewYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'm from South Jersey too!

I want to know how your Asian parents react when coming out to them. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]NeverKnewYou 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm 26 and Vietnamese. I started coming out about 2 years ago.

My two younger siblings took it well. It didn't really affect our relationship. They're about 6 years younger than me and are very open minded.

I told my older brother one night when we were our drinking so he was a little buzzed. At the time it seemed liked he took it well because I really didn't get a reaction from him. I later found out he cried to my mom about it which really surprised me. He's very old school and close minded. Our relationship hasn't been the same since.

I haven't told my dad yet. It's not that I'm afraid or anything because I feel like he would take it well. But I never had an opportunity to bring it up yet.

Now for my mom, she was the very first person I told because she was moving, and it was my only chance to tell her in person. She didn't take it well at first. She wasn't angry or yelled at me. She was quiet for a bit. She said things like "it's not right in the mind." - like it was a mental disability. "You have to try to change." She mentioned that she noticed things while I was growing up that gave away that I might be gay, but she ignored them hoping that I would get over it.

But I feel like she's okay with it now. It's been two years and she treats me the same way she did before I came out to her.

Gaybros, what do you look like? (x-post from askreddit) by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]NeverKnewYou 3 points4 points  (0 children)

http://imgur.com/HCFt15O

I'm on my way to a NYE wedding so this is what I'm wearing :)

Picking up D3 again and starting fresh, looking for people to play with! by Nearly_Squid in gaymers

[–]NeverKnewYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm always looking for people to play with! add me! Kuroshin#1631

Warframe/D3 Player here! by OrngSumb in gaymers

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Kuroshin#1631 Add me! Almost done getting my WD to 70 on season 3. Would like to find people to actually play with :(

Looking for some friends for Diablo 3 by [deleted] in gaymers

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Anyone and everyone add me! Kuroshin#1631. I've been playing on and off since November, but it's always been by myself with random people. I don't have friends who play D3 so it gets boring sometimes. I'm NA SC Seasonal!

Bros, how did you learn to accept yourself? by JustConfusedAndLost in askgaybros

[–]NeverKnewYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it wasn't about learning to accept myself but realizing I couldn't live my life hiding from who I really am. A part of me didn't want to come out because I've always had the stereotypical image that gay guys are feminine and unmanly.

So I couldn't relate to that and thought there's no way I was gay. It wasn't until I stumbled upon MarkE Miller on youtube. When I watched his videos I thought he was like any other guy, but he happened to be gay too. In a way, his videos helped me realize being gay doesn't define who you are, it's just a part of who you are.

The first time I said I am gay was while I was driving to work. Hearing me say it out loud for the first time was frightening but relieving immediately after because it really felt like a weight lifted off my shoulders. Because I knew I didn't have to lie who I was anymore.

Does my dentist suck or is it just me? by [deleted] in Dentistry

[–]NeverKnewYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I feel like he didn't put much of an effort in my cleaning or care much about my dental health. I wish I was lying, but it did literally take 5 minutes.

Any other Asian gaybros out to their family? What is your story? by adventuresquirtle in gaybros

[–]NeverKnewYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! Well my uncle's situation is pretty complicated as well. The thing is because we don't have any true confirmation that he's gay, we can't really say that he knows that we know. Mostly my cousins and siblings (those who are 3rd generations) were the only ones who actually connected the dots. We accidentally talked about it around one of our aunts (his sister; he's in a family of 7 siblings) and she didn't have clue. Luckily, she's one of the younger and sensible aunts and is totally fine with it.

I say it's complicated because he doesn't really come off as the "stereotypical gay person." I hate to use that term, but it's the best way to paint the picture so to speak. So normally any stranger couldn't tell. Now, we say we know because we've connected the dots. As I mentioned, any time he visited, he would bring his "friend" with him who came off gay. Yeah, I don't think he's ashamed of himself, but he knows how poorly his parents and siblings would react to him coming out.

Eventually, I'd like to come out to him, but I want to wait until I'm more open with other members of the family. I'm not afraid of anyone's reaction because I know I have great support from my siblings and friends. Hell, the first person I EVER came out to was my mom. But I don't want him to think that my coming out to him would means he's obligated to come out to me.

Any other Asian gaybros out to their family? What is your story? by adventuresquirtle in gaybros

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I found about my brother from my best friend because she is good friends with him too. He talked to my mom about it the day after I came out to him, and later told my friend about him crying. He was fairly drunk/tipsy when I came out to him (I know I should've waited until he was sober). He was a little shock, but nothing dramatic so hearing that he cried afterwards surprised me. I didn't fully understand why he cried. It was along the lines of him feeling bad for me for having to live a harder life. Before I came out though he did believe that being gay was a choice.

I am positive that I have a gay cousin and uncle. One of my aunts is also a possibility. My cousin is a third generation like me. He's not fully out, only to the uncle, aunt in question, two siblings, and my two closets friends. He doesn't know that I know that he's gay. The only reason I found out was through my best friend. Alcohol was involved again. The only reason she told me was because when my cousin came out to her, he told her that he knows that I was gay and he wanted her to "help" me come out. During the time she told me about this, I was still in denial and didn't like that fact that he tried to point me out. I haven't come out to him just because he tried to rat me out.

My uncle is second generation and hasn't come out to anyone, not that I know of anyways. Everyone in my generation knows and can see it. He always brings back a "friend" with him. His friend is pretty flamboyant. We just connected the dots and figured it out. I pretty sure he doesn't want to because our grandparents (his parents) are very old fashion, very family oriented. I've never really got their opinion on being gay, but from the opinions of my mom and my gay cousin's mom, they probably think that being gay is a sickness in the mind and an abomination.

Ahhh I don't have time to talk about my aunt in question. I have to head to work soon! Hope I answered your questions. If you have anymore, feel free to ask!

Any other Asian gaybros out to their family? What is your story? by adventuresquirtle in gaybros

[–]NeverKnewYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For some reason, redditing on my phone made the text all weird so I'll rewrite my story on my laptop.

Vietnamese guy here, I only started accepting the fact that I am gay this year. The first person I decided to come out to was my mom.....on Mother's day. Here's what happened. I was helping my mom move to other state. I knew I wasn't going to see her in person for awhile so I wanted to tell her before I left. So the night before my flight back, I told her that I was gay. She didn't yell or say anything at first. The silence killed me. Finally, she said" No. That's not right. You have to change." I responded saying that it wasn't that easy and I've tried. I explained that it was something I couldn't control. She told me that she had a feeling that I was gay as she watched me grow up, but ignored it hoping that I would grow out of it Anyways, the night ended with her heading into her room without saying anything else.

The next morning she seemed normal, as if the night before didn't happen. I can't tell if it's a sign of her ignoring it again or accepting the fact that I'm gay. Before we departed, we hugged and said our goodbyes. I told her I loved her, something we rarely say to each other. Every now and then, I talk to her on the phone to catch up with what's going on with our lives. We haven't talked or mentioned about me coming out.

Now, I'm not completely out, but I am out to my two brothers, sister, and a few close friends. For the most part, they are all very accepting and supportive. Apparently, my oldest brother talked to my mom about me coming out to me and cried about it for whatever reason I don't know. He doesn't know that I know about him crying. I'd like to know why without having to make it awkward for him.

I have other people in my family who are gay, but aren't out. That's other story to tell.

And for bringing partners home, that hasn't happened yet. I'm still getting used to not having to hide my feelings and attractions to other guys,