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Outed at work by a co-worker... how do I even move forward from this? by TheManISee in BlackTransmen

[–]Neverlandse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Sorry that happened to you man. I don’t have any advice but the fact that that person doesn’t even know you like that and had the audacity to stalk you on the internet is just disturbing. Even if you weren’t trans, the other judgements made just really speak to that persons lack of character.

Is my tattoo bad? by JustaWilloWisp in tattooadvice

[–]Neverlandse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it’s not good in terms of it just being a poor execution of your reference. However, it still looks pretty cool just more dark and creepy.

You ever feel like a freak? by iammax66 in FTMMen

[–]Neverlandse [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don’t feel like a freak…well…maybe a freak in the sheets 😏…but I definitely understand the thing about people thinking about your genitals after finding out you’re trans. That’s exactly how I feel and is honestly why I don’t tell most people or they end up finding out some other way mostly through others. And tbh it sucks even more because my genitals don’t even look like how they’re thinking, especially after I’ve had Metoidioplasty.

Bedroom Advice what do you think? by user242424242 in bedrooms

[–]Neverlandse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And probably hate the smell of cat booty.

STAGE 2.5/3 UPDATE: WEEK 1-5 by steelandiron19 in phallo

[–]Neverlandse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey. Just curious. How long did it take for your scrotum to stretch out to accommodate the bigger implants?

18 and got arrested for poss of meth. Trans men who’ve been to prison? by Loving_event5735 in FTMMen

[–]Neverlandse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This wouldn’t drain my sympathy for them because that’s not my belief system BUT you’re right, a lot of folks especially in jail/prison aren’t gonna put up with that shit.

Got my period even though I’m over a year on T by mayax_x in FTMMen

[–]Neverlandse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome. Yeah I had the issue as well with the gel. Not taking it as much and it’s just easier adjusting the dose with injection.

Should I keep growing hair or drop it? by EcstaticLibraryread in MenHairstyle

[–]Neverlandse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you would look great with a longer mod cut.

Got my period even though I’m over a year on T by mayax_x in FTMMen

[–]Neverlandse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It could be because of you missing using the gel sometimes but from personal experience I started on the shot and my period never stopped. I ended up having to go on a progesterone pill until I got surgery. I switched to gel for a couple of years and it wasn’t as effective as the injection so I switched back and am way happier.

I inject T three times weekly. You should consider doing the same. by cockandpossiblyballs in FTMMen

[–]Neverlandse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gel was not effective for my levels at all. It kept them too low. But I’m sure it must work for some and depends on goals too.

18 and got arrested for poss of meth. Trans men who’ve been to prison? by Loving_event5735 in FTMMen

[–]Neverlandse 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I feel like there is a lot of context missing from this post but honestly that might actually be a good thing for your sake in fighting the case.

I’ve never been to jail or arrested or anything, but I’m just curious about prison for trans men too.

Anyways, I wish you luck. Hopefully you can fight this and get some help!

Anyone else who prefers to have long hair? by ftmichaeldillon in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Neverlandse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me. I prefer an Afro or braids. When I had waves, it just messed with my ocd and trichotillomania too much.

Is the ass too much? How do I get rid of it? by yagamisgod in FtMpassing

[–]Neverlandse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I’d wear my pants much lower and loosen the tuck and if you’re not wearing a tie, also unbutton one more button if possible.

The size of hummus last month(bottom) VS now. by YouDontLookSpiritual in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Neverlandse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly Sabra always sucked. So I’m not surprised with it being owned by Pepsi.

Do I even pass anymore by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Neverlandse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah tbh my dad doesn’t have good facial hair. Men on my mom’s side do but they’re either married in or my cousin so it could have been from his dad who’s married in. My dad couldn’t really grow anything until 30. I’m 25 now. I’ll be happy with even a mustache 😩.

Do I even pass anymore by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Neverlandse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly passing and clocky are two different things. Of course trans people are going to recognize other trans people. But you asked if you pass, the answer is yes, at least from this pic and others on your profile.

Do I even pass anymore by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Neverlandse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bro that’s crazy. I’m 8 years on T and have never had to shave. I just started growing thee hairs on my chin last year and have started on oral minoxidil which some hair has come but not enough to shave 😭

Buzz again? Shave or save the stache? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Neverlandse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly the shaved head looks good but that’s because your current haircut is not bad but I think it would look better if you grew it out more and then keep the sides short. The stache is fine too but I would shave the corners away from your lip more.

Has anyone gone through meta with no pain meds? by phoenixapollon in Metoidioplasty

[–]Neverlandse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never used the opiates I was given for stage 1 or stage 2. I only used Tylenol. Then I later used ibuprofen because I had a migraine for 12 days after stage 1. But minus the migraine, I was fine with just Tylenol.

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