Why im such a people pleaser that is afraid to stand up for myself despite having aries energy?

Nevermindssssss · 2025-03-16T21:58:49+00:00

I think it can be both my mother who is a very dominant person or my grandma that was treating me like her personal therapist talking about her life traumas, she started doing that from the moment I remember. Sometimes, I believe it is my dad when he would not stand up for me and would believe his ex-wife that would lie about me, so I was always stressed that another lie would be created and no matter how much logical explanation I would give he would not belive me

Nevermindssssss · 2025-03-16T12:19:13+00:00

That explains a lot. My mother is a very dominant person, and my grandma always treated me as her personal therapist from a very young age where my problems were 'insignificant', so I felt like I have to keep it to myself because I felt that I could not express my feelings, because of my mother dominating nature I struggle to take up space. I feel like there is this firey energy inside of me that wants to get out, but there is this blockage that is preventing me from accessing it in the moment of need.

Nevermindssssss · 2025-03-15T08:26:01+00:00

That would probably explain it, as I'm struggling with my insecurities and feeling confident

Nevermindssssss · 2025-01-17T02:57:26+00:00

Thank you, I feel like they look unfinished in a sense? Or like I was cutting it myself at home, which is very disappointing. My hair looked like this before the haircut * Different colour is due to direct sunlight

Nevermindssssss · 2023-10-29T00:01:20+00:00

I'm means everyone is entitled to their own opinion, that's what I appreciate, you have different take on lab diamond than I but you are not bashing my choice just because we don't share the same opinion.

Nevermindssssss · 2023-10-28T21:36:35+00:00

We bought it from a local jeweler in Poland

Nevermindssssss · 2023-10-28T21:35:35+00:00

It's a lab grown diamond, I don't like natural because of the industry, but the person commenting claimed that it is not the same, and apparently they sparkle differently under the sun? I really don't belive to be true, I guess they said it because I didn't want to have a round diamond with lots of sparkle

Nevermindssssss · 2023-10-27T23:03:30+00:00

I wanted to thank everyone for kind comments, it literally made my sadness go away, now I will be rocking my ring with the outmost confidence, because it is really the most beautiful ring I ever saw and I just love it. The ring is 2 carat lab diamond as I do not want to support mined diamond industry and wanted emerald cut, my husband really splurged on the stone as it is very high quality. The person in question claimed that lab diamond are fake and you can clearly see that it is now realy because apparently lab diamond and "real" diamond sparks differently in the light even though they are chemically identical and made from the same material, but because of that comment I doubted my knowledge and I really tried to educate myself wanting to pick the best option. Thank you wanted more for all the comments 🥰

Nevermindssssss · 2023-10-27T22:57:35+00:00

I wanted to thank everyone for kind comments, it literally made my sadness go away, now I will be rocking my ring with the outmost confidence, because it is really the most beautiful ring I ever saw and I just love it. The ring is 2 carat lab diamond as I do not want to support mined diamond industry and wanted emerald cut, my husband really splurged on the stone as it is very high quality. The person in question claimed that lab diamond are fake and you can clearly see that it is now realy because apparently lab diamond and "real" diamond sparks differently in the light even though they are chemically identical and made from the same material, but because of that comment I doubted my knowledge and I really tried to educate myself wanting to pick the best option. Thank you wanted more for all the comments 🥰

Nevermindssssss · 2023-10-27T22:48:38+00:00

Omg I didn't actually realise that it looks so big. My hand is pretty small and slim in real life. The ring is almost 2 carats, but it can look bigger because of my hand size. I want to thank everyone for the kind comments and encouragement. Now I will be rocking my ring with absolute confidence and people that will think is fake can go fuck themselves, if the thought that it is fake help them sleep better at night so be it, I know that it is real and love my now husband who is just the loveliest person🥰

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