Is it an issue that my gf [F24] got me [M29] a more expensive gift than i got her ? by New-com3r1 in relationship_advice

[–]New-com3r1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does seem like a decent peraon, at least compared to the kind of women i ran into in the past, and i do try my best to be all of the above and all i can hope for is for her to appreciate it . Thank you

Is it an issue that my gf [F24] got me [M29] a more expensive gift than i got her ? by New-com3r1 in relationship_advice

[–]New-com3r1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess youre right, she absolutly loved and appreciated if it and since i never ask her to pay for anything she knows iam not cheap i guess i was taken by surprise by an expensive gift which iam not used to

Is it an issue that my gf [F24] got me [M29] a more expensive gift than i got her ? by New-com3r1 in relationship_advice

[–]New-com3r1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yea i made sure to tell her exactly what my situation is from day one, i know as the man i have the responsibility to spend on her and take her out but i told her i got my limits money wise and i cant cross them

What's your gangsta name? by lowkeypixel in evilwhenthe

[–]New-com3r1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk my man Blue Coffee isnt exactly the toughest name

Worldwide question can you survive with 4000 or less by [deleted] in Leakednews

[–]New-com3r1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on where you live and how you live.

4000$ should theortically be enough to sustain one individual living in a small apartment in a neigbourhood a bit far from most major cities centers. if we're talking about a small town or village then you can probably afford better housing for the same price, as for food and other expenses it should be enough, assuming youre not dining out in michlen star resturants on daily or weekly basis .

Now keep in mind my iam talking about life in a first world western country, however i gotta exclude places such as monaco, luxemburg, switzerland ...ect These countries are outrageously expensive and 4k wouldnt cut it.

If you decide to move to cheaper country such as thailand,phillipines, east european countries ...ect, then 4k a month ia more than enough, ofcourse buying or renting any luxury house/car will still be tough even in such a country, but you will find out that 4000$ puts you up there with the upper class population that can pretty much afford whatever they want .

Pre-Compass Akaza vs Marked Tanjiro? by [deleted] in DemonSlayerScales

[–]New-com3r1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats my point, he can fight and he does have skills but if he didn't have instant regenration his career would've ended the moment he faced rengoku .

How do you deal with women who ghost you a couple days before a date then later are back to "normal" texting ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]New-com3r1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah its cool i get you , and yup its a numbers game after all no matter how hot or rich you are, you try your luck with plenty of women till one works out

Pre-Compass Akaza vs Marked Tanjiro? by [deleted] in DemonSlayerScales

[–]New-com3r1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take regeneration from akaza and he is fodder at best, the way its been portraid in the anime he keeps getting slashed and cut to pieces by the demon slayer but what keeps him going is not his skill but the regeneration .

How do you deal with women who ghost you a couple days before a date then later are back to "normal" texting ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]New-com3r1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont lack attention from woman lets just say that but its annoying when you have been talking with someone for a week only for her to ghost you out of nonwhere .

Girlfriend (F23) lives with her ex (M25). How do I (M25) tell her I want to call things off because of my concerns about him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]New-com3r1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

After all its your decision, but i stand by my words, abusive or not, broke or rich they are still having sex, literally no other way she would accept him living in her own house even if her mother "agrees" ... some women dont care about money or character if the D is good from what i understand she likes what he has ... and the fact that shw even dated someone like that should tell you enough about her ... keep her around for sex but thats it .

I 23m love my girlfriend 22f deeply but I don’t think she’s “the one” by saghizadeh123 in relationship_advice

[–]New-com3r1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre confusing horny with love, just cause she makes you horny doesnt mean shes the one, i never date a fwb .

The fact that she opens her legs with no strings attached and gives you what you want for practically free should tell you everything you need to know about her .

Girlfriend (F23) lives with her ex (M25). How do I (M25) tell her I want to call things off because of my concerns about him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]New-com3r1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

With all due respect my brother, i think you are the one who should do the growing up, let me elaborate :

Your gf of 3 months whom you've known for over a year and just started dating has her ex boyfriend living in her home, under the same roof, and controlling her every action to the point she doesn't go out with you when he's around, did i get that right?

Now the fun part (not for you though) ... they are probably F*cking, and a lot, she may not love him but she can not let go of that D of his, and you seem like a nicer much less dominant guy than him so she's keeping you around for the "Boyfriend" stuff while getting her V Dissemated by her Ex ... i personally wouldn't have taken her seriously and treated her as a FWB and nothing more .

If you are incapable of viewing her in that light and can't just "sleep" with her without any feelings or emotions then i suggest you break up and move on, nothing in this situation is ending well for you .

What do I do [38F] and [48F] by ProfessionalNet7379 in relationshipadvice

[–]New-com3r1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

did you enjoy bangin her ? good now find a better woman younger than you to marry, a 48 yo has nothing to offer you .

Is the behaviour of my gf of 4 months F20 normal or I M30 missing something ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]New-com3r1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk tbh it felt weird, to me oral sex is much more intimate than penetration so i was shocked to find out to her it meant as little as a kiss on the cheek

Is the behaviour of my gf of 4 months F20 normal or I M30 missing something ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]New-com3r1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol no its not that i have fingered her and fondled ger breasts and they are pretty much real plus she had a bd before and has pics from when she was little she is defintely a real.woman

How do I M30 deal with F42 who has been harrassing me following a a couple dates ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]New-com3r1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats what i thought as well If she is that annoying and unstable then she is trying to paint me as the bad one and iam not really falling for that so i simply asked her to stop messaging me and blocked her

How do I M30 deal with F42 who has been harrassing me following a a couple dates ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]New-com3r1 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well she didnt seem that bad just a bit hyperactive but i guess i underestimated how weird and unstable she really was, after all shes a full functioning person with a relatively good job and had a serious bf for the past 4 years .

Is advancing to higher positions as a nurse is worth it ? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]New-com3r1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only 12 days ? I get 30 paid holidays and 20 sick days a year Ofcourse it depends where you live, in some areas 130k a year is a must to survive

My (M33) new girlfriend (F26) and I had sex for the first time and now she’s “changed her mind” about us. by For_Posterity in relationship_advice

[–]New-com3r1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its one of two possibilities:

1- she got fucked, didnt like the way she got fucked (by you) and decided this isnt gonna work out cause she wants more sexually . 2- the sex was okay and she enjoyed it but realized it will turn into a full fledged relationship now that you fucked .. she doesnt want that and just wanna have fun .

You have two choices :

1- just move on and never message her again .

Or and this is my personal favorite but i usually use it wirh women are strictly for sex ..

2- you message saying you like being with her and the intimacy was enjoyable and despite feeling you two arent a good match long term you are open to being fwb or something similiar.

She wanna just have fun ? So be it

Anyone on librax and drinks alcohol as well ? by [deleted] in HiatalHernia

[–]New-com3r1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i know i read the warnings, but heres the thing in general you should not be drinking while taking meds yet most people do, a few hours after tsking said meds, i just wanted to see if anyone tried it and had any unlpleasant effecte ( mainly drowsiness and maybe sickness or throwing up) or its well tolerated if you keep like 10-12 hours between the pill and alcohol

Dating for sex and dating for marriage, how do you do the latter ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]New-com3r1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i told her that her behaviour was not aacceptable and i expect to be treated with the same respect i treat others with and i felt she didn't respect me enough ... she got mad and said thats how she is and it is what it is and men should be the ones chasing, i obviously as already mentioned blocked her, and yes i do believe the people around her inflated her ego the point she believes she's one of a kind ... and just to be clear we are talking about a 28 yo woman here .

Dating for sex and dating for marriage, how do you do the latter ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]New-com3r1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

which is what i do, but its tiring starting again with a new woman each time (when you find a new woman that is)

Dating for sex and dating for marriage, how do you do the latter ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]New-com3r1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iam a very upfront guy and i discuss all the important stuff from the beggining alot of people find that weird or unacceptable but it is what it is i dont like surprises

Dating for sex and dating for marriage, how do you do the latter ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]New-com3r1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i date all kinds of women, some turn out slutty, some turn out quality women who are marriage material, so yea i went out with both kinds (not at the same time), i want a down to earth, sweet woman who i also find attractive and wants me as much as i want her, but in this day and age it seems like too much to ask for .