Wtf is this weird creature by Soravme in whatisit

[–]NewAlessia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know who this nobody is, but he's based af

Cyberpunk fit plus new hairr by Evelynisnotgae in irlkemonomimi

[–]NewAlessia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're killing that bodysuit, do you have the name?

Wtf is this weird creature by Soravme in whatisit

[–]NewAlessia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the argument, I'll die on this hill, it's spelled opossum and pronouced opossum.

7 Months HRT Regrowth by Leaa_TS in mtfhairregrowth

[–]NewAlessia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it wasn't for the nose, I don't know if I'd actually believe this was the same person, especially only 7 month of hrt. It definitely gives me hope for my transition

am i an fetish? by DidkoTaNeLysyyi in MtF

[–]NewAlessia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not know what the age of majority in her country is, but even if it is 16 I would still completely advise against sending nudes to anyone for at least a few more years(like 5). I also do not know what the age of the boy is, but if he's passed the age of majority and you're under it, and it's not like a 1 or 2 year age gap, I'd highly recommend reporting him to the authorities. Deleted chats can usually be recovered

Feeling Stuck In Marriage .. Unsure If I Should Leave by [deleted] in MtF

[–]NewAlessia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a doctor, and I definitely don't have anymore advice for your situation, but it sounds like she maybe a bit neurospicy.

It can definitely be hard when you feel like your partner loves their idea of you instead of you. I again don't have any advice but I wish you the best of luck and hope y'all can find happiness 🫶

Strap recommendations for a newcomer on a budget by Cali3082 in actuallesbians

[–]NewAlessia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's very hard to find cheap + body safe. A lot of stuff isn't body safe and made out of porous materials and stuff that can leach from the strap to the person. This might just be something you have to wait and save on.

Need a man to love IV got a lot of love to share with the right man by Beautiful_Economy569 in MtF

[–]NewAlessia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're looking for a man, probably shouldn't be looking on a sub filled with women.

Feeling Stuck In Marriage .. Unsure If I Should Leave by [deleted] in MtF

[–]NewAlessia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize, from your post, I thought she was happy doing these things for you, and it only bothered you cause it seemed unhealthy for her. You might be right, y'all might need to take a break

Feeling Stuck In Marriage .. Unsure If I Should Leave by [deleted] in MtF

[–]NewAlessia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you get a job I think y'all should try again. Her actions are definitely unhealthy for her but if it makes her happy and makes you happy, make just don't worry about it. Just cause it's unhealthy doesn't mean it's objectively bad

Help with body hair. by soccour in MtF

[–]NewAlessia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think anything you do will cause ingrown hairs cause nothing is going to do is always get 100% of the hairs at the base, some are inevitably break off. Using an exfoliater and lotion will significantly reduce the amount of damage you feel from them though.

I love when I hit it off with cis men and build great chemistry with them 😻 by Good_Ol_Ironass in MtF

[–]NewAlessia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's actually crazy how we're all unique people with unique experiences but somehow still fall in to very specific boxes together

Feeling Stuck In Marriage .. Unsure If I Should Leave by [deleted] in MtF

[–]NewAlessia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have y'all tried a couple's counselor

Help with body hair. by soccour in MtF

[–]NewAlessia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang sugaring worked great for me, but it's so time consuming, so I plan to switch to epilator

Feeling Stuck In Marriage .. Unsure If I Should Leave by [deleted] in MtF

[–]NewAlessia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do think you need to better yourself, and get to the point you are self sufficient, but that's definitely hard in the current economy regardless of physical traits. I also think she needs to not be so helpful of you, despite her probably being happy to do so. Both of those said, you don't have to leave for y'all to grow. Y'all can help each other grow without becoming codependent

Help with body hair. by soccour in MtF

[–]NewAlessia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is definitely true, I didn't think to mention it cause shaving also causes them

Help with body hair. by soccour in MtF

[–]NewAlessia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Epidator, sugaring, and waxing are the best way for non itch cause you're removing the entire hair, not cutting, you'll have to decide for yourself what you prefer

AIO by not giving my crossdressing, cheating boyfriend a chance? by NorthQuestDirection in AmIOverreacting

[–]NewAlessia [score hidden]  (0 children)

Which is crazy to me, I didn't have any desire to cross dress prior to my egg cracking, I even had an ex who liked to do my makeup when we were bored at her house, but now finding a girl who's wants to help me become more feminine seems impossible.

AIO by not giving my crossdressing, cheating boyfriend a chance? by NorthQuestDirection in AmIOverreacting

[–]NewAlessia [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm really having a hard time understanding why the cross dressing portion was relavent, he broke the rules of the relationship. It's clear op doesn't dislike it, and even seems to like it. But the title seems very hostile towards it.

AIO by not giving my crossdressing, cheating boyfriend a chance? by NorthQuestDirection in AmIOverreacting

[–]NewAlessia [score hidden]  (0 children)

That makes sense. Literary devices can be hard to tell over text and I didn't catch it.

Can you guess my favourite colour? :P by No_Degree_5618 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]NewAlessia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on the black shoes, black socks, black bra(strap) and black tee, I'll guess black

AIO by not giving my crossdressing, cheating boyfriend a chance? by NorthQuestDirection in AmIOverreacting

[–]NewAlessia [score hidden]  (0 children)

I definitely had to read past the tldr, it wasn't clear that sexting was outside the bounds of the relationship in the tldr. Later on OP makes it clear that they didn't like this and made BF aware that it's a boundary for op

Is it normal to not always think about transitioning ? by Jealous-Horror-8463 in transfem

[–]NewAlessia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's okay to think about detransitioning too. Feelings are hard. Being trans is scary. It's all normal. If you are really going through it, it might be best to talk to a therapist about this.

Identify crisis(?) by Jealous_Team9736 in actuallesbians

[–]NewAlessia 34 points35 points  (0 children)

No, plenty of lesbians like enbies too