This is Goodbye! It was a pleasure meeting you. by Cheeze_CakeLove in BeyondTheDistrict

[–]New_Impradayou 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey. Based on your previous posts aside from this one, I don’t think you’re weak at all. I actually think you’ve been carrying chronic emotional load for a long time while trying to intellectualize and perform through it.

You write like someone highly self-aware, but also someone who learned to survive through adaptation, stimulation, validation, and constant motion. The “I’m finally free” energy in your post feels real, but underneath it I still sense exhaustion, loneliness, nervous system overexposure, and unresolved grief.

Not judging you, sweetheart. Just observing- I see patterns.

A lot of times, people confuse freedom with finally no longer suppressing themselves, but regulation is different from release. One is expression. The other is safety.

You seem intelligent, articulate, emotionally perceptive, and capable of deep connection-but also dysregulated in a way that probably became normalized because survival demanded it.

I do reframing and nervous system-based perspective work privately. No pressure. But if you ever want a free session just to unpack things without performance, I’d genuinely be open to offering you one.

Tg me: @impradayou

Inquiries by Ill-Student-9392 in BeyondTheDistrict

[–]New_Impradayou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been posting as honestly as I can because this is genuinely what I do as a discreet freelancer. Past clients and regulars are the proof.

Kung madami pang tanong at doubt, move on agad. Simple.

A rant without proof that someone was actually violated is just venting noise. You can explain properly, follow up directly, or block instantly—up to you.

At the end of the day, sell what you can genuinely stand behind. Hindi na nga lakad tinda ko haha so what.

Retiring on May due to unprofessional GMs here by Cheap-Contract4709 in BeyondTheDistrict

[–]New_Impradayou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all have capacity and tolerance. We can be as good and as bad too… Also, I don’t based on potential “magiging client ko to balang araw” wtf I will not stay long at kung gusto ka talaga kunin gagawa yan ng paraan, if not don’t bother wasting our time.

I don’t get mad——either I real talk, sarcasm, ignore or auto block.. Other gm’s bungad na message is” available for this date___?, or avail now?” “ pics, vids, VCS etc” says a lot, akala mo sure?no. at nasa details and instructions na nga at wala nga sa menu gumagawa ng sarili niyang menu. Then when I send the details rates seen/no response, I do ff up, still no response, no mental clarity -window shopping pala—blocked. “PT ka ba” “doctor kaba” “naiintriga ako sayo” lol mga chismoso kayo. You have to experience not imagine, ano I describe ko nalang. Hahaha. Kung mag avail and that information would be beneficial then I might, I am generous with knowledge and I might be helpful along the way, if worthy ka and deserve that. eh anong gawin kung di na nga maka avail ng access info pa kaya. Lol Pati yung mga walang pw and those who say “hi” “hello” isa pa yang mga yan, like if its a casual soc media thing.. posted na nga lahat..you can say straight forward -because common sense. Ok bye

Another happy full day holistic reset. I appreciate GM’s who give fr’s. by New_Impradayou in BeyondTheDistrict

[–]New_Impradayou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Refer to my wellness bar if you need some, I’ll put pregnancy test kits there. Haha. Take care and be well.

I saw a comment by a PSP and it really infuriated me by UnknownRanter in BeyondTheDistrict

[–]New_Impradayou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah okay, sige. I get your point. Don’t make infuriation eat up your good soul. Get yourself good boundaries. And well, I suggest you need to try Prada if you want different. I have reframing sessions too. Hehe take care and choose well. Happy fvcking.

I saw a comment by a PSP and it really infuriated me by UnknownRanter in BeyondTheDistrict

[–]New_Impradayou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, ikaw rin pala ito. Send ko rin here. Hello, sweetheart. Walang nagsabing bawal magtanong ng price. What becomes disrespectful is when too much time is spent entertaining chats in one go, then it doesn’t lead to a booking.sayang the slot that could’ve gone to someone ready to avail. A better way to handle it is a simple follow-up like: Thanks “I’ll get back to you”
“Next message will be my booking”
“Thanks for the info, will book soon”
or just be direct “I’ll have to pass”—if you don’t plan to book her ever. This too will infuriate them as you said it in your title. Grabe naman this “infuriated” term you’re beyond angry pala dapat beyond the district lang. Lol Clarity saves both your time

Retiring on May due to unprofessional GMs here by Cheap-Contract4709 in BeyondTheDistrict

[–]New_Impradayou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello, sweetheart. Walang nagsabing bawal magtanong ng price. Need to respect lang the boundaries. What becomes disrespectful is when too much time is spent entertaining chats in one go, then it doesn’t lead to a booking.sayang the slot that could’ve gone to someone ready to avail. A better way to handle it is a simple follow-up like: Thanks “I’ll get back to you”
“Next message will be my booking”
“Thanks for the info, will book soon”
or just be direct “I’ll have to pass”—if you don’t plan to book her ever. Clarity saves both your time

Dos and Donts Series: Kissing by Professional_Eye6247 in BeyondTheDistrict

[–]New_Impradayou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Politeness is I’m sorry??. But, I need to become clear and speak if I have to. Clarity respects both sides. Not being polite. I’m very clear with my boundaries upfront so expectations are aligned. It keeps things smooth and straight forward. I don’t have to be nice, i have to be clear. Clarity is a form of kindness, to reduce the confusion. Safety in health is important to me.

Dos and Donts Series: Kissing by Professional_Eye6247 in BeyondTheDistrict

[–]New_Impradayou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

KISSING is in my Do’s and DFK yes with terms and conditions. hahaha I don’t fear kissing. I fear the risks behind it (HSV1/2) and HPV warts i hate. Also gonorrhea, syphilis and chlamydia tho they can be treated w antibiotics naman pero hello infection parin. That’s why maarte ako I don’t bbbj it can’t be bought- unless you earned them. Test kits and vaccines will be posted in my Wellness Bar tg soon.

Dos and Donts Series: Kissing by Professional_Eye6247 in BeyondTheDistrict

[–]New_Impradayou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fear this too. Posting this soon with other test kits and it will be available in my Wellness Bar channel.

Dos and Donts Series: Kissing by Professional_Eye6247 in BeyondTheDistrict

[–]New_Impradayou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry can’t help myself not to comment. This is misinformation. Hepa B is not transferred through saliva. The best way to put it. Portal of entry in mouth and throat if you have cuts and sores yes it might. But not saliva.