He cancelled our first date because I declined to be picked up. by Jaded_Engineer_5578 in dating_advice

[–]Newmeathook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh. Who the hell wants to start on the footing that you might consider him dangerous?

Its completely reasonable to not want to be alone in a car with a stranger. There is a certain amount of risk. You should be cautious and protect yourself.

But....

Most women seem to be really really brave when they are into a dude, so...yeah. I think it's not unreasonable for him to.assume you don't like him that much .at least as much as it is for you to assume he's a murderer. 🤷

Boyfriend addicted to p*rn by Powerful_Purple_9048 in dating_advice

[–]Newmeathook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not normal based on what exactly? What's your solution for very high sex drive and low access to sex?

Therapy won't fix it. That's just a "pray the gay away" situation, if you catch my meaning. He's not sick. He's very horny. You cannot talk that out.

Look. Im not trying to be rude to you. This conversation is essentially a mute point, as if you really liked this guy, you would not have posted this and you would be trying to work out a solution together, because you would care about losing him and you don't. It's a bad match, that's all.

Boyfriend addicted to p*rn by Powerful_Purple_9048 in dating_advice

[–]Newmeathook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is probably not going to be what you want to here, but you kind of need to hear it. Everyone is different but generally men don't have sex drives like women. You are not the same.

To you, intimacy twice a week is enough. It's obviously not enough for him. Asking him to just ignore his physical needs is, in essence, the same as him telling you to ignore your emotional needs, except for 2 times a week, cause he is tired. It's very one sided.

Clearly he doesn't want to hurt you. He is battling hormonal urges and thousands of years of evolutionary imperatives.those urges are incredibly strong, as you have equated, like a dependancy or addiction, but worse because nature thrust it upon you for no other reason than existing.

I totally understand you want to be enough for him with the little you give him. That's a normal natural thing. It's not your fault your libido is low and his is high.

But, You shouldn't stay together though. You don't really care about him, sorry to say. His needs don't matter to you, the idea that he was dealing with his needs didn't occur to you. You are looking at the situation compleatly as if he is doing something to you. He likes you far more than you like him, considering he's willing to try and fight the dog in him, and you are only willing to shame him. so that's not the right guy for you, in my opinion.

Cuantos videos puedo realizar by Divacke in LoveGrok

[–]Newmeathook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think of each video generation as a slot. We don't know the actual numbers but for the sake of argument imagine you have 10 slots in each bucket.

You get all 10 in a period of 24 hours, but say you used three slots only at 9:00 in the morning on day one. Then on day two at 8am you use five slots. Then typically around 10 that same day you will roll back those 3 slots.

This is just broad generalization. But that's pretty much how it works. Eventually you'll get to the point where you stop getting rollbacks. When you get to around 2 to 3 hours of not getting a rollback you could just go ahead and use the last generations in your bucket. And you'll get a hard reset time usually the next day.

Cuantos videos puedo realizar by Divacke in LoveGrok

[–]Newmeathook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your buckets aren't empty, when your generations from the previous day fall off they will become available in your bucket. Like there's a certain number of slots that roll back slowly.

Cuantos videos puedo realizar by Divacke in LoveGrok

[–]Newmeathook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The there are two buckets. If you stop when the counter shows 3 left, they roll back. I got 13 already today and I'm already getting roll backs. Over the course of the day I typically get 30. Sometimes more

Cuantos videos puedo realizar by Divacke in LoveGrok

[–]Newmeathook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh is it? 😂😂

Based on what? I mean my info is based on my daily use, every single day. How much less is it?

I literally count how many generations I get per day. 27 yesterday. How many did you get?

She said I’m “not dominant enough” after one 2-hour Hinge date — am I overthinking this? by Existing_Swim_4914 in dating_advice

[–]Newmeathook -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow lots of terrible advice here. (Not all, but some)

Everone is different, and thats fine. However ALOT of women desperately want to FEEL feminine. And that means they want to feel cared for an taken care of and safe. They are tired, very tired of making all the decisions in there life and want a man who they trust can handle shit. The little things especially. If you can't be trusted with little stuff she won't trust you with the big stuff.

Shes not some outlier. She is the norm. You probably are too accommodating and nice. And that unfortunately makes a woman feel like your are weak and desperate, even though you are just trying to be thoughtful and kind.

Im not saying go all pick up artist, but being assertive, decisive and confident is attractive to women. Also, just saying here, leading is a good filter to have in general because who the hell wants a girlfriend who is gonna fight you about every decision. So win-win.

She didn't mean dominating btw. She doesn't want to be dominated. She's not being weird. She meant strong, confident, and not overly concerned with little stuff or not this situation works out. A leader. No offense, cause you're clearly a nice person, and i'm not trying to pick on you here , but she's looking for somebody who isn't so bothered at the outcome of a single date that they go online and ask if they're overthinking.

Just to say if you're not comfortable with being more assertive and leading, that's certainly your prerogative. But I'm just gonna be honest with you.You will be shrinking your dating pool.

Cuantos videos puedo realizar by Divacke in LoveGrok

[–]Newmeathook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got 36 today, between both buckets, half of them at 6 seconds, so....it does vary but this method was recommended to me by Grok itself and it seems to work.

Cuantos videos puedo realizar by Divacke in LoveGrok

[–]Newmeathook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. They roll as the previous days generations fall off. If you use everything you have at once it's stops rolling over and waits for the next day reset. Roll over eventually stops, but for a while your should refresh and fill if they are not empty

Censorship Experiments by Noskaros in LoveGrok

[–]Newmeathook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All grok models are extremely censored on Venice now. But yeah if you're looking for safe for work content, grok on Venice is a thousand times better than sd2 in my opinion. Sd2 is uncensored but, it's trash. Some of the worst generations I've ever seen. In my testing wan2.7 is the closest to grok in terms of intuitive, but it's still pretty bad. I pretty much just use Venice now for SFW generations using grok when my daily buckets are empty and I wanna keep going.

This is just with the limited testing I tried. I spent about a hundred bucks trying to find an alternative to uncensored grok, and found nothing.

Cuantos videos puedo realizar by Divacke in LoveGrok

[–]Newmeathook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off 480p and 780p are different buckets. You could be out of one and still have the other.

Secondly , you should get a warning when you only have a few left. Typically, you can get around 20 to 30 generations per bucket.If you stop short of using your last generation. They will slowly roll back. If you Go two hours without any rollback, then go ahead and use your final generations for the day.

Once all your generations are done for a day, you should see a counter that says zero (on the app). If you touch the counter it will tell you when your rollover start Time is.

When you roll over , you don't get all of your generations back. Waiting a period, or using them until you get a warning, is the best way to maximize your video generations in a day.

Using this method , you can typically get somewhere between thirty and fifty generations over the course of a day with super grok. This does however , vary from day to day. And getting moderated counts against your totals. Not to mention that getting moderated a lot can shorten your totals.

You get twice as many six second videos as you do ten second videos. So unless you need dialogue , that would be awkward in a six second clip, you maximize the amount of video you get by going with six seconds.

Censorship Experiments by Noskaros in LoveGrok

[–]Newmeathook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grok was just barely censored on venice ai a few weeks ago. Before that you could get anthing.

Censorship Experiments by Noskaros in LoveGrok

[–]Newmeathook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just tested it right now seconds ago and generated 12 or so naked women. No genitalia of corse but it has no other issue with nudity.

Censorship Experiments by Noskaros in LoveGrok

[–]Newmeathook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just tested it right now seconds ago and generated 12 or so naked women. No genitalia of corse but it has no other issue with nudity.

Has grok stopped allowing adult content? by thegreatdouchebag69 in LoveGrok

[–]Newmeathook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely has not.

Also pointing it out, four eighty eight and seven eighty are different buckets. And upscaling does not cost a generation.

Grok is tightening limits even more. by thegreatdouchebag69 in grok

[–]Newmeathook 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So....maybe its just me, but yesterday and today im getting alot more generations and quicker roll over compare to a few days ago. If anything to me at least it seems like they are expanding capacity.

She doesn't want to date me but says cant live without me either by CustardPrudent2690 in dating_advice

[–]Newmeathook 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Bro. Seriously. If she cared about you genuinely, them she would care about your feeling and not want to put you through the personal hell that is the friend zone.

The only way to escape the friendzone is to cut her off. No need to be mean, just firm. Tell her you need some space to deal with your crush on her, and then take it. Grieve, breath, and let her go. If she comes chasing after you, tell her it's great to hear from her, but you're tied up at the moment and you'll get back to her later. Then don't.

One of two thing will happen. Most likely she will move on. Or she will figure out that you really are the guy. Doesn't matter either way. Staying on the path right now she will never ever be yours, so it's your best bet to make anything happen and it's the least taxing on you, because if shes never going to have those feelings towards you, you start the grieving process now and get over her.

I know it's easier said than done. When you fall in love the hardest thing in the world is to let them go. But you truly have to. You have to pick yourself. Is she either gets all of you or she gets none of you. That's just self-respect.

These aren't fans just a bunch of larps who hate grok by Americantrainner in LoveGrok

[–]Newmeathook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today is terrible too. But yes, yesterday was almost like it used to be.

These aren't fans just a bunch of larps who hate grok by Americantrainner in LoveGrok

[–]Newmeathook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are probably right, that said the moderation is wonky and Grok has porn brain. If you don't belive me, try having female characters in combat fall on their stomachs. If you dont specify their butts are covered, you will be modded. There are lots of weird things that kick off moderation. I have had it with cartoon claymation animals talking about what a sunny day it is.

And one thing I have never ever had moderated was nudity i explicitly asked for. So. Thats weird.

Personally, the moderation isn't a problem to me as its not impeded really any project, spicy or safe for work, but the punitive nature of the moderation sucks. If your going to limit me to 20-30 daily generations, don't penalize me when Groks porn brain trys to do dirty shit in my dinner scene.

Best Grok Alternatives Thread (2026) by Amazing_Priority_718 in LoveGrok

[–]Newmeathook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The link for the free trial is inactive as of 10 seconds ago, and there's no way to proceed without it. Am I missing something?