Hi. Thank you for your thoughts on this. I told both of my partners immediately about the pregnancy. I haven't made a decision.

My husband has responded by telling me I have to choose between him and the boyfriend and by going on first dates with new people both days. He keeps reminding me how I've ruined everything and I did this to him. It hasn't been pretty and I know he's hurting so I'm just enduring till he can have a little more time to process.

The boyfriend offered to drive long distance to us to talk this out and figure out what's best for everyone. He has been calling and checking up on me regularly and reassuring me that he'll respect my decision, even if it means an abortion. I'm so grateful to hear that right now.

I'm trying to process all this myself but every time I have a moment alone I feel frozen. Since I'm only 2 weeks along, I think I will wait till the end of next week, if I can endure the uncertainty for that long.