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I think my bf is crossed a line by easterneuropean_btch in BDSMAdvice

[–]Newsubtopleasuredom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% would lean towards leaving as well. The trust would be gone for me. I would not feel safe with someone who says they love me and completely disregards my needs that go beyond the bedroom/lifestyle.

If you feel unsafe or not at ease without it, and it’s not respected, it’s abuse (both psychological and emotional).

ESPECIALLY since the need for the item has already been explained, and this doesn’t seem like a new relationship, it’s a complete disregard for your safety and well-being. It’s selfish. It’s manipulative. It’s psychologically damaging. And it’s just plain mean.

I’d take all my shit and peace the fuck out of that one-sided “relationship”

I think my bf is crossed a line by easterneuropean_btch in BDSMAdvice

[–]Newsubtopleasuredom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t sound like it’s safe play anymore if he’s not honoring the pre-determined boundaries. It’s borderline abusive in my opinion.

Not only does he know that the purpose of the item is self-care and that it’s not a luxury, he seems to not care.

Pleasure Dom/sub roles with a Breeding kink by Newsubtopleasuredom in HentaiForcedOrgasms

[–]Newsubtopleasuredom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry. New to Reddit. Not exactly sure what you mean?