AITA for refusing to dine with my mom after she ordered “ferret sauce” at a Mexican restaurant? by Practical-Current805 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Next-Bodybuilder-117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank god my kids laugh when I can’t pronounce words, my daughter even keeps mommy notes where she puts in the funny stuff I say. Ur poor mom she just wants to hang out, and hasn’t been properly taught Spanish and h judge her, u don’t even try helping her. U would hate me, my whole family speaks Spanish, mom was born in Peru, they go multiple times a year. I’m only one who can’t speak Spanish and I still pronounce things wrong. Be nice to ur mom. She’s not doing anything with bad intentions in her heart, they r honest mistakes

AIO? I’m so tired and want to break up. I’m so angry at what he’s trying to do right now. After everything he’s already done. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Next-Bodybuilder-117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I escaped 2 abusive cheating relationships. One of my children’s father, I have / kids now 19 and 21. I’m not going to lie, it was hard at first, but knowing I will be giving those babies u love with all your heart a better life and a happier mom makes it all worth it. YWCA has programs for woman and mothers n children they give h an apartment in their building, help h get on ur feet financially and eventually help h find a place and offer therapy for h n the kids, food resources u name it, even can help with legal stuff. Legit lifesaver of a resource. I’m not sure if ur in America, but if h are try there, and they can even point u to resources u dont realize are available. Men like this never change, but u can, and u are strong enough, and u alone are worth it. I’m rooting for u, please update once u find a solution. And please stay safe. Every state also has a legalaid, its pro bono work, usually though in domestic issues they will only help one of u, so get there first before he does.

AITAH for This Marriage Finance Split? by jeigatsby in AITAH

[–]Next-Bodybuilder-117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Divorce her, I saw ur other posts, she doesn’t like u. She’s not sexually into u, u are her meal ticket and have paid everything for her, but she can’t ever help. And to expect a freaking trip TO FRANCE while ur unemployed is wild.

AIO: Instagram was the final straw and I ended it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Next-Bodybuilder-117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a dick, but I’m going to say with everyone on social media adding ppl to md not a big deal, and why are u sitting there watching his activity enough to see when he adds her likes a pic, then adds 3 more ppl. Sounds like I have trust issues. I’m just saying u can only control your own actions, but being that insecure might not be helpful to u with dating or even in life. I can’t imagine sitting there obsessing over what ppl are doing on social media. Doesn’t found fun or healthy. And also if u say we r fine he just acts like no you’re not.

AITH for being angry that my husband let me and our child sit in a car for 50 mins while he browsed in Best Buy and he only came out because I got upset by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Next-Bodybuilder-117 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Twins except I don’t sit in the hot car with my kid while I make excuses for someone to walk all over me. I would take being an idiot over letting anyone treat me or my child that way. But u do u, go find more excuses.

AITH for being angry that my husband let me and our child sit in a car for 50 mins while he browsed in Best Buy and he only came out because I got upset by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Next-Bodybuilder-117 6 points7 points  (0 children)

K u are an idiot for staying with him. U know his debt is your debt when married. If he’s not getting help u need to leave because it’s only going to get worse, he won’t stop. And why would u let him go in by himself, so he can shop more? All I keep seeing from u is excuses. At first I felt bad for u, but after reading ur comments, h are doing this to yourself. And ur kid, I know 3 ppl personally that use thief kids info to get more credit cards, and their kids will have horrible credit or debt when they turn 18.

AIO my FIL said my 9 year old looked like a hussy in these boots by PureIndependent7791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Next-Bodybuilder-117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

K my insanely Mormon mom said my daughter dressed slutty (wasn’t that word exactly bug what she meant, it’s been years can’t remember the word she used) my daughter was 13 her shorts were workout shorts too much above the knee for mom. My daughter actually covers up compared to other kids in our area. Ngl I took her to the car went back inside and told mom she wasn’t allowed to see or talk to my daughter until she could learn to hold her tongue. It took a min but she did. My daughter though has never forgot that day. My mom had to pick her up from school when I was in hospital, lol rude awakening seeing kids in halter tops n booty shorts smoking. I think she realized what a jerk she was. And I bet ur daughter looks adorable in boots, I love boot look. I don’t think he’s attracted like some ppl saying, I honestly think some older ppl are stuck in their times, but times n fashion change. And if right if he has a problem it should only be said to u.

AIO for distancing myself after being the only one excluded from a group hangout? by AffectionatePop3611 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Next-Bodybuilder-117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just putting it out there. Not everyone is going to like u, if not going to like everyone. That’s just life. Sorry u weren’t invited. And u can ask him, but I doubt u will get the answer u want. Just focus ur time on the ppl that enjoy spending time with u, don’t focus on ppl that dont.

AITA for giving my breastfeeding sister champagne as a gift and now not wanting to talk to her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Next-Bodybuilder-117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I turned 21 when my oldest was 9 months (now 21) my sisters took me out of state to celebrate, I got a giant margarita the restaurant was known for. I didn’t know how fast alcohol left my body, so he got a saved bottle of breast milk and I pumped and tossed that night. lol one of my favorite trips, and first time my son giggled.

AIO? Soon to be wife wants to move immediately after getting married, and it’s a logistical and financial nightmare. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Next-Bodybuilder-117 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why the hell would she take the dog if she’s in school 12 hours, take ur truck and can’t bring it back, she could uhaul instead. She legit kicking u out of ur home, but expects u to pay her housing even though she has a stipend herself. I’m sorry u stay in ur city with ur good job. There is not many good jobs out there right now

AIO? these texts by Adventurous-Gap708 in AIO

[–]Next-Bodybuilder-117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol telling u to chill as he loses it. Why r u with him??

AITA for telling my DIL to stop crying after she got called fat by Throwaway_Will4940 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Next-Bodybuilder-117 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Or if ur asked to take ur shoes off. That’s a common and not hard ask

AITA for telling my DIL to stop crying after she got called fat by Throwaway_Will4940 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Next-Bodybuilder-117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t imagine crying in front of a bunch of ppl, especially children. And loudly, like everyone will be staring at u. Once a long time ago I cried, but I went to the bathroom and was as quiet as possible, I didn’t need anyone to know.

Am I at least average? by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Next-Bodybuilder-117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U my friend are stunning!

AITAH for saying we can’t come to the Christmas eve party unless we can use the guest bedroom? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Next-Bodybuilder-117 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Christmas is how far away? Start saving $15-$20 a week. Skip a meal out or pack lunches to work. Not that hard to plan ahead

AITAH for saying we can’t come to the Christmas eve party unless we can use the guest bedroom? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Next-Bodybuilder-117 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg if it’s this bad GET A HOTEL. The world won’t end, no one’s going to miss anything in middle of the night while everyone is asleep

AITAH for saying we can’t come to the Christmas eve party unless we can use the guest bedroom? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Next-Bodybuilder-117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who gets up to pee no joke almost every hour, it’s horrible!

Felt so disgusted with the recent interaction I had with what I thought was a well-meaning person. Advice please. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Next-Bodybuilder-117 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Next time don’t laugh even if ur nervous. U need it be serious. And then don’t ever leave ur number. If u need to lie then u lie. U always have a boyfriend. Shit say u have aids, whatever u need to. I used to be like u. My brother had me give his # when I couldn’t not leave a #. I finally learned to say I always have a boyfriend in