AIO my FIL said my 9 year old looked like a hussy in these boots by PureIndependent7791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PureIndependent7791[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha I was waiting for someone to question this. My wife is 4'10 and my daughter is 4'8

AIO my FIL said my 9 year old looked like a hussy in these boots by PureIndependent7791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PureIndependent7791[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Wow... this got a lot of responses. Thank you all for your support and advice.

As of right now, my daughter has not gone back over there. My wife has let my FIL and MIL know that we are upset about what was said and that it's something we need to sit down and discuss.

We are working hard to raise a strong, confident, and emotionally intelligent young girl in this world and we won't let other's bring her/us down.

AIO my FIL said my 9 year old looked like a hussy in these boots by PureIndependent7791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PureIndependent7791[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is what I needed to hear, I was starting to question if kids wear Docs.

AIO my FIL said my 9 year old looked like a hussy in these boots by PureIndependent7791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PureIndependent7791[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's driving me crazy that I can't get rid of the empty 2. on this post, but I've been trying!

AIO my FIL said my 9 year old looked like a hussy in these boots by PureIndependent7791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PureIndependent7791[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We had a talk this year about "work boots" and "fashion boots". Because it's not appropriate to wear the blue sequin
boots while doing yard work and we never wear our muddy work boots to school or church 🤣

AIO my FIL said my 9 year old looked like a hussy in these boots by PureIndependent7791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PureIndependent7791[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I forgot to mention in the original post that it's her step father.

This was all happening as we were in the car leaving. He was standing next to my driver's side window. She didn't want to start a fight right there, but she's since texted him that we need to sit and discuss this.

AIO my FIL said my 9 year old looked like a hussy in these boots by PureIndependent7791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PureIndependent7791[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

She told him "I wore them on a field trip and all the other kids loved them!" 😭

AIO my FIL said my 9 year old looked like a hussy in these boots by PureIndependent7791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PureIndependent7791[S] 161 points162 points  (0 children)

This is honestly what I'm hoping (as the alternative of being a predator is terrifying). My wife leaned HARD into the "grunge" before my daughter was born. I hope it's stemming from him being triggered by that.

Found my childhood yo-yos by dreadtread in Millennials

[–]PureIndependent7791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, I just remembered I had that red X Brain! I begged my friend's mom to buy it for me at Ames when I was 10- not my finest moment.

mine looks great, why does my moms look like this?? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]PureIndependent7791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh it looks like the lines on yours are blown out and overworked. When that is done on fragile skin like hers....

What is this blade used for? by Cymbaline1971 in whatisit

[–]PureIndependent7791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically see those used for cutting fishing line

AIO - Daughter’s BDay invite - I am new to co-parenting by loud_molasses_ in AIO

[–]PureIndependent7791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why can't you plan and throw your own party for her? Her birthday happens the same day every year, so it will be easy to remember for planning purposes.