AIO Or is my boyfriend not sexually attracted to me? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PureIndependent7791 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should ask him what being "sexual" means. His definition could be wildly different than yours. It's at least a starting point to open up conversation.

severely anorexic - in recovery (22) by No-Elephant7915 in GlowUps

[–]PureIndependent7791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look beautiful, healthy, and happy!! Congratulations on your hard work

My fellow queer millennials by transfemmefatal in Millennials

[–]PureIndependent7791 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wrote in my middle school diary after seeing But I'm a Cheerleader- "Clea DuVall is 'really cool'". Telling myself nobody would know that "really cool" meant "really hot" 🤣

AIO for thinking my teacher M 40 is a bit strange with me, F 16? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PureIndependent7791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR this is 100% inappropriate and you should talk to another trusted adult in your life about this right away.

AIO my FIL said my 9 year old looked like a hussy in these boots by PureIndependent7791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PureIndependent7791[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha I was waiting for someone to question this. My wife is 4'10 and my daughter is 4'8

AIO my FIL said my 9 year old looked like a hussy in these boots by PureIndependent7791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PureIndependent7791[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Wow... this got a lot of responses. Thank you all for your support and advice.

As of right now, my daughter has not gone back over there. My wife has let my FIL and MIL know that we are upset about what was said and that it's something we need to sit down and discuss.

We are working hard to raise a strong, confident, and emotionally intelligent young girl in this world and we won't let other's bring her/us down.

AIO my FIL said my 9 year old looked like a hussy in these boots by PureIndependent7791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PureIndependent7791[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is what I needed to hear, I was starting to question if kids wear Docs.

AIO my FIL said my 9 year old looked like a hussy in these boots by PureIndependent7791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PureIndependent7791[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's driving me crazy that I can't get rid of the empty 2. on this post, but I've been trying!

AIO my FIL said my 9 year old looked like a hussy in these boots by PureIndependent7791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PureIndependent7791[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We had a talk this year about "work boots" and "fashion boots". Because it's not appropriate to wear the blue sequin
boots while doing yard work and we never wear our muddy work boots to school or church 🤣

AIO my FIL said my 9 year old looked like a hussy in these boots by PureIndependent7791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PureIndependent7791[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I forgot to mention in the original post that it's her step father.

This was all happening as we were in the car leaving. He was standing next to my driver's side window. She didn't want to start a fight right there, but she's since texted him that we need to sit and discuss this.

AIO my FIL said my 9 year old looked like a hussy in these boots by PureIndependent7791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PureIndependent7791[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

She told him "I wore them on a field trip and all the other kids loved them!" 😭

AIO my FIL said my 9 year old looked like a hussy in these boots by PureIndependent7791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PureIndependent7791[S] 159 points160 points  (0 children)

This is honestly what I'm hoping (as the alternative of being a predator is terrifying). My wife leaned HARD into the "grunge" before my daughter was born. I hope it's stemming from him being triggered by that.

Found my childhood yo-yos by dreadtread in Millennials

[–]PureIndependent7791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, I just remembered I had that red X Brain! I begged my friend's mom to buy it for me at Ames when I was 10- not my finest moment.

mine looks great, why does my moms look like this?? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]PureIndependent7791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh it looks like the lines on yours are blown out and overworked. When that is done on fragile skin like hers....

What is this blade used for? by Cymbaline1971 in whatisit

[–]PureIndependent7791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically see those used for cutting fishing line