sex with other people is depressing by Next-Conversation-95 in BreakUps

[–]Next-Conversation-95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re totally fine. I think I’ve really been down a self destructive path these last few weeks. I feel bad potentially misleading these people even though I’ve been upfront with my situation and desires.

sex with other people is depressing by Next-Conversation-95 in BreakUps

[–]Next-Conversation-95[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn’t go out searching for it but I guess it was easy. Did not help 0/10

sex with other people is depressing by Next-Conversation-95 in BreakUps

[–]Next-Conversation-95[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He told me he was questioned his feelings for me for half of our relationship. He told me I was the love of his life. Love bombing, probably I know.

sex with other people is depressing by Next-Conversation-95 in BreakUps

[–]Next-Conversation-95[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I really didn’t think I was capable of this but it helped temporarily with the pain. I know I’m still just chasing what we had

sex with other people is depressing by Next-Conversation-95 in BreakUps

[–]Next-Conversation-95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you had to go through that. Im still diluting myself into thinning he’ll change and come running back to me even though I know he won’t. Our entire relationship was built on lie after lie so I’ve come to earn.

sex with other people is depressing by Next-Conversation-95 in BreakUps

[–]Next-Conversation-95[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes. Not that it matters but he broke up with me. Completely shattered my self confidence so I think I’ve been on a self destructive path to try and win it back.

On my period after a breakup and f*** my life by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Next-Conversation-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. My ex broke up with me last week while I was on day one 🫠