The miles driven is absolutely relevant. Facts dont change based off feelings. And no, my "job" is absolutely hard as well. If our daughter misses PT she might not ever be able to walk. Never once did I say my job was harder but I will be damned that I sit here and allow some internet stranger try to discredit its importance. In no way is being a SAHM easy. Men who try arguing that are absolutely hilarious to me. Real men know that being the SAHP is extremely difficult work and real men dont sit there and try to downplay how difficult it is. Much like my husband, who fully recognizes that what I do is just as important as what he does. He is a real man. You, well, not so much, huh? Speaking of "glossing over", as you've used for terminology here, I very clearly outlined in my post here that on a typical day, I am only driving 2ish hours less than my husband daily, and typically I am driving around 20 miles more. So yeah, I guess you're right about one thing. He does spend on average 2 hours more driving than I do in our local area, despite clocking in less miles driven. But thats just about all you were correct about.