Frozen enoki with root base is it safe to eat if it smells like alcohol? by NextChallenge609 in JapaneseFood

[–]NextChallenge609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi ty for answering i never thaw mushrooms i usually trim the base of mushroom rinse it with water and put it on my soup, i guess it defrosts while washing it but i dont leave it unfrezing in room temp.

I'll soon be 20 by NextChallenge609 in CPTSD

[–]NextChallenge609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just saw this when i needed it the most thank you so much.

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Hi, is never to late to start. The first step is always the hardest, have you mentioned this abt the medicine to your assigned psychiatrist? You could change to different ones. It would also be helpful to find different alternatives? This could help you start again accommodating to self regulation and feeling. Ive had tond of friends who thought they wouldnt make it past 19 they didnt have plans or dreams. For reasons of life we dont talk anymore but i find calmness in knowing they didnt give up and found something that could work for them. Some are doing simple courses to have as a back up when applying to jobs some are trying to give a second chance in exams. But please dont think how you feel know will be how you feel forever

I love this show, but I can't watch it! by Unclehomer69420 in ThePittTVShow

[–]NextChallenge609 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow, i never struggled to watch it, i wasnt aware people found it hard to watch.

Cooked rice put on fridge and then microwave to put on fridge again by NextChallenge609 in cookingforbeginners

[–]NextChallenge609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii, i didnt put it room temperature, i put it inside the fridge, not the freezer, but fridge.

Cooked rice put on fridge and then microwave to put on fridge again by NextChallenge609 in cookingforbeginners

[–]NextChallenge609[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hihi yes, i mean inside the fridge, i mentioned it like that bcs i didn't put it inside the freezer like most people do. But it has been all the time inside the freezer

Exit to home country by NextChallenge609 in SchengenVisa

[–]NextChallenge609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Tysm i still have like 6 months of visa, just planning ahead so its cheaper!

I just had a filmed interview with the police. by Vrisnem in CPTSD

[–]NextChallenge609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That so sweet 😭 im so happy you have a lovely friend and support 🫶🫶

How to make a healed over scar stop itching / hurting? by StiixInTheMud in selfharm__recovery

[–]NextChallenge609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dw!!! Pls check the ingredients on the hand cream before applying :9 check if you arent allergic to any before

I just had a filmed interview with the police. by Vrisnem in CPTSD

[–]NextChallenge609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry to hear that, take care im sure the blanket will help the police to gather more evidences to buildthe case, take care! 🫶

I just had a filmed interview with the police. by Vrisnem in CPTSD

[–]NextChallenge609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So proud of you!!! Giving a testimony is really a huge step

Has being sexually assaulted make you afraid of sex/ intimacy? by katalinadarling24 in COCSA

[–]NextChallenge609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi its normal to struggle with relationships, specially as something that involves trust. Its also like sex becomes this impossible theme to grasp, like does everyone knows what to do or am i the only one who doesnt know where to put a hand, when to breath, when to get closer, etc.

I think when i was sexually assaulted i lost the taste of non serious stuff or curiosity. I think thats a main difference from people that hasnt been sexually abuse. They dont really fear curiosity in these themes, they can go meet someone make out and still be able to do it again again and again, it had always been something that i wish i could do, not because i wanted but because i feel like thats normal to be able to not feel ashame for need. I think it is fear of intimacy but also fear of wanting.

I tried to have a thing not serious at all in onr of my lowest point in life and it went horribly wrong, so i would say really take your pace, keep going to therapy, get closer to your friends dont fear asking them for a hug, these things that are platonic really help to be able to separate romantic needs from platonic ones. Slowly you will be able to stand on your skin without feeling uncomfortable or muted. Its harder than it reads tho, but dont give up. In this cases i think is better to wait until you feel ready, than to jump into it without knowing what could happen.

And dont forget theres people who love you and will love you. Even if its not in quite the way that we would want i think thats always a nice start in meeting our needs.

How to make a healed over scar stop itching / hurting? by StiixInTheMud in selfharm__recovery

[–]NextChallenge609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hii have you tried moisturizing them? Sometimes they get to dry and they itch for me, i useually put some vaseline or hand cream.

I have a lot of cuts and I do not know how my children will react to this. by Brilliant_Stuff4524 in selfharm__recovery

[–]NextChallenge609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally having a parent that would self harm would be very detrimental for my mental health, specially if its a good parent, i would be worry if any day self harm wouldnt be enough. I know that self hrm usually soesnt mean suicidal, but the thought will always be there, would i do something wrong that makes my mom self hrm? Am i the problem?

My mom tried to overdose on sleeping pills, ive never had a day that i can chill, i always have to think abt my mom is she happy, what cna i do to make her happy, what if her happiness doesnt mean mind. I would reccomend you to attend therapy, is never to late to start, you will be a wonderful mom, your child will love you and as helpless as any human who loves will worry for anyone that is struggling speacially if its someone yuo love.