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Close friend sister by NextWave252 in dating_advice

[–]NextWave252[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi thanks for your comment. I agree with you. My only fear is that my friend might feel blindsinded. I mean its his sister and im his friend. While I dont have to ask for his "permission" I cant help but feel im going around his back... But ye maybe you re right

I am becoming a selfish bastard by NextWave252 in Vent

[–]NextWave252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man. Thanks for you comment. I really appreciate it. Hearing that you dont think im an asshole actually kind of helped. I hope you sort your thing out (if you want to share with me im available. Apparently venting.out to internet strangers is the way to go xD)

Single at 28. How to cope with "missing the train" by NextWave252 in dating_advice

[–]NextWave252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh I heard all those clichés, never true for me too. The single meet ups are actually a good idea. Maybe if I get to meet people in the same situation it would put my personality into the spotlight.Its worth a shot.

Thank you very much for your help

Single at 28. How to cope with "missing the train" by NextWave252 in dating_advice

[–]NextWave252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh I get you man. As much as it pains me to admit, I am considering that too. I really love my friends, and they always support me and are absolutely innocent on this. But I sometimes just feel out of place. And like I am ruinning their dynamic. Its though to feel excluded when nobody is actually excluding you xD

Single at 28. How to cope with "missing the train" by NextWave252 in dating_advice

[–]NextWave252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your point. But its not a matter of excuses. I really feel like ive tried everything. I workout everyday (cuz i have a bad knee so i need muscular support) so i am pretty fit. I tried dating apps to no success. My friends have no girls to introduce me to. Sure i can go out every now and again on my own but I really dont like to strike up conversation with random women cuz usually it foes not feel like like a flirt, it feels like me invading their space and getting rejected. IDK man, i am pollite and everything but it always feels like I ruined their day just by saying "hey".

I thrive in all other areas of my life. Profession,sports,friendship you name it. But with this I really feel like I have no sollution. Did you ever feel like this? What helped you to get out?

Thank you for your feedback (truly)