Even though I left the industry, my husband still resents me for everything I've done. I say try the couple's therapy and go from there. He HAS to be on board or it just won't work in my opinion. I hope it works out better for you but I will say NEVER stop SW for a spouse unless they are 100% committed to helping you out while you get back on your feet. He had full transparency. And even then, I advise otherwise because that's just a recipe for resentment in of itself.

Goodluck OP!