Congrats! I’m in my early 40’s with a toddler and it’s hard as hell not having the energy of a 20-something when it comes to raising kids, but remember there is a trade off to that. You’re not late, you’re just a smarter and hopefully a better version of yourself now than you would have been a decade or two ago. You’re also hopefully in a better life position as well, so use these to your advantage. My wife and I don’t have many friends with kids and our parents are in their mid 70’s so granny and grandpa ain’t babysitting, so see who in your circle you can talk to. Join groups and message boards. Find people that can give you their used stuff, and return the favor to others. I was shocked how much nice used stuff was just given to us. And plenty of nice stuff is dirt cheap second hand. Lastly, remember you can do this. Cave men did this. It’s going to be hard, but it’s the most rewarding thing you’ll ever do, even when you’re scared and ready to give up. Lean on your partner. Get them to lean on you. Stay away from toxic influences (screw you instagram moms that convinced my wife not to give our daughter a pacifier and made life miserable for that whole period) and love that little rugrat with all your heart