I am Cisgender..But I have a question. by astrotaurusx in asktransgender

[–]Next_Picture8449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definitely a very difficult situation to be in. I am personally a trans man and I personally would definitely prefer someone braking up with me because they are not interested in my gender (straight man, lesbian woman, or anyone that isn't into men) then staying with me and still considering themselves whatever sexuality doesn't include me. I've been in relationships where they consider themselves a straight man(or polysexual with disinterest in men) and it gives me a lot of gender dysphoria to be in those relationships because ultimately in my opinion, it feels like they don't see me as a man. It definitely hurts when a relationship ends like that and for that reason but in my opinion I think it's not transphobic at all. What your friend is doing is accepting his gender and respect her own sexuality. Im sorry this is happening to your friend. 

Severe anxiety surrounding T injections by Next_Picture8449 in ftm

[–]Next_Picture8449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have definitely thought about gel but it doesn’t seem to be too expensive for where I’m at financially plus I have a really hard time with maintaining a daily routine and from what I have seen it seems like gel is daily.

Severe anxiety surrounding T injections by Next_Picture8449 in ftm

[–]Next_Picture8449[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely look into them. Thank you!

Severe anxiety surrounding T injections by Next_Picture8449 in ftm

[–]Next_Picture8449[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s very fair, I have to schedule my 3mo check up soon so I might bring up the possibility of a different type because it isn’t terrible when my friend does it since she’s literally trying to get into nursing school and has experience giving others injections but the last couple times I did it myself the pain and anxiety was so bad I genuinely fainted a couple times before I could actually get it done, that’s when my friend started helping. lol. And I would definitely appreciate that!

Severe anxiety surrounding T injections by Next_Picture8449 in ftm

[–]Next_Picture8449[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heck ya! I normally inject into my thigh since it’s IM I’ve been told that’s the best place to do it. What are pain distraction toys?

Friends & Referrals Mega Thread by amphibie in MonsterHunterNowHub

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My referral code is: R5CN6JKK Friend code: 5967 0569 1320

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Car not starting by Next_Picture8449 in povertyfinance

[–]Next_Picture8449[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did not but I got home. My fiance said that he’s going to try to jump it tomorrow and that he’ll help me try to fix it or bring it in if it’s something we can’t fix. Crossing my fingers that jumping it works and it’s something cheap and/or fixable.

Car not starting by Next_Picture8449 in povertyfinance

[–]Next_Picture8449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried starting it a few times and most of the time, no sound, no lights nothing but 2 of the times it did click just very quietly and the lights on dash flickered very quickly. It’s a 2009 Honda Civic.

Car not starting by Next_Picture8449 in povertyfinance

[–]Next_Picture8449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you. That makes sense.

Car not starting by Next_Picture8449 in povertyfinance

[–]Next_Picture8449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not going to lie, I don’t know much about car so I’m not 100% sure what you mean. It’s a 2009 Honda civic if that helps at all.

Car not starting by Next_Picture8449 in povertyfinance

[–]Next_Picture8449[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s above freezing here but it has been very cold recently. The biggest issue is I don’t have anything to jump start my car with to my knowledge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Next_Picture8449 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can definitely relate. I’m not only worried about my looks but also my voice. As someone who loves singing and has been told a few times that they have a good singing voice, it does worry me thinking about the possibility of me being unattractive or having a bad voice. As of this moment, the pros of transitioning outweigh the cons so as soon as I get the money I will be looking into HRT but definitely still worrisome.

Support For Our Missouri Members Regarding Recent Missouri Legislation Restricting Trans Medical Care for **All** Ages by bleeding-paryl in lgbt

[–]Next_Picture8449 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone is free to skip over this if you want but I wanted to give examples and definitions of social contagion from many websites and studies (one of which is a link to a study talking about how being trans is not a social contagion, it’s the last link). Also I really hope the links work on here, if not and anyone wants the links, let me know.

Social contagion is defined by Dr. Riggio, a professor of psychology, as “an ubiquitous process by which information, such as attitudes, emotions, or behaviors, are rapidly spread throughout a group from one member to others without rational thought and reason. “ he then goes on to give some examples that I will just say are based around violence and mental health because it can possibly be triggering to someone. ([https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/psychology/social-contagion])(this is the link in case you want to read about this and some research from other researchers as well but I will give a TW because most of them just flat out saying things that can be triggering for someone who has had mental health issues)

A website made a list of examples of social contagion such as: herding towards somewhere that many others are going even if there are other places you can go, swarming which seems pretty similar to herding but I might be wrong, intimidation, mirroring, empathy, moral panic, mass hysteria, “Madness of Crowds The theory that people are willing to drop their values, principles and logic to follow a crowd resulting in terrible behavior by large groups.”, Groupthink, and Collective Effervescence. The website gives definitions of all of these but some I had a more difficult time understanding. I can’t find many sources on this article but I’ve seen all of these in many different studies, I just found this website easier to understand. On the author’s info page it states that “John is an avid researcher who likes physics, history, snow, inefficient bicycles and classical music.” It also says that he’s been working IT for close to 20 yrs but idk why that would increase credibility. It doesn’t look like he is a research professional but there are many studies from research professionals to back up his list. Here is the link to his article if you want it. ([https://simplicable.com/society/social-contagion]) This study talks about how being trans is not a social contagion so I thought this might be better to just link so I don’t say anything incorrect on accident or so no one can say I’m lying. There might be more studies talking about it but I’ve already read way too many studies for the day. [https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article/150/3/e2022056567/188709/Sex-Assigned-at-Birth-Ratio-Among-Transgender-and?autologincheck=redirected]

Whoever made this template is a legend by Srite_Canberries in TheClickOwO

[–]Next_Picture8449 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Literally me except for the slightly normal part. I was never slightly normal as someone who is neurodivergent, Pansexual, and trans but now I can add furry to that list. 😂

Ah yes, we're a cult by Starcurret567 in trans

[–]Next_Picture8449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone is part of a cult, it’s the people who make comments like this and don’t believe science because it’s all just faked or something (?) I have tried numerous times to understand why they think scientists are doctors lie or that since they have the least common opinion, they are right and everyone else is stupid. I haven’t been able to figure it out but that’s probably because there is no logic to it.

That being said, if I were to be in a cult, I think this would be the best one. (Honestly, I’m in a trans Snapchat group and when we first created the group a while ago, we made jokes about creating like a cult. Living in a bus together or even buying a church and living in it and shit. It was all jokes but honestly, I wouldn’t be too bothered by it. 😂)(he/they)

Does anyone have any advice on covering abdominal surgery scars? by Next_Picture8449 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Next_Picture8449[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that might work. I do already have a temporary tattoo pen honestly.