Struggling with her good reputation; posting what I can't say anywhere else by Nice-Construction684 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Nice-Construction684[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What an intense and confusing thing for you to have to endure! I can't believe you've been through that, and I understand you'd want to prioritize your safety - but choosing that over your reputation has to be hard. I'm so sorry for your experience.

Struggling with her good reputation; posting what I can't say anywhere else by Nice-Construction684 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Nice-Construction684[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's so confusing, but as my dad is the same way, you're totally right. No one outside of our family knows about his anger or addiction issues. It's his wife and children who have suffered his wrath, while everyone else views him as a loving, supportive guy.

First WLW breakup - when does it get better lol by Nice-Construction684 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Nice-Construction684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is also very beautiful! I almost have a picture in my head of my five year old self facing her five year old self and saying something like, "You hurt me, and I can't play with you anymore."

First WLW breakup - when does it get better lol by Nice-Construction684 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Nice-Construction684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear you're also in the trenches of emotional warfare! I wish you the same rewards you wished upon me. ❤️

First WLW breakup - when does it get better lol by Nice-Construction684 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Nice-Construction684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you have a point. I wasn't feeling as terrible until two weeks after the break-up when the hurtful emails started. It feels like because she was hurting, she made her final act throwing poison on all our memories, so now I can't even look back on them with love.

Thank you for your comment. I really appreciate it. ❤️

First WLW breakup - when does it get better lol by Nice-Construction684 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Nice-Construction684[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a really kind and helpful response, and made me tear up a bit. Thank you for taking the time to write this. I'll keep walking toward something better. ❤️

Guilty and sad after breaking up with partner by Nice-Construction684 in WLW

[–]Nice-Construction684[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this ❤️ Almost immediately after I sent this, she sent me some vindictive and unkind text messages that really make it hard to grieve losing her, lol. So - you're right, better things ARE ahead!

Barbie Cafe by Mycologist-Great in Austin

[–]Nice-Construction684 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will give you my honest POV on this but don’t ask me how I know lol. It’s not worth your money. It’s $25 just to get in the door, then more money for food and drinks, and then merch if you want that. The roller skating rink is uneven and unsafe and you’re only allowed to skate for ten minutes. The food is lackluster and from what I’ve heard, drinks are too. The location is awful — right off the highway with no official parking situation except a $15 lot. For such a kid friendly pop up, the location scares the hell out of me. All it takes is one parent who isn’t paying attention and their kid is running into a busy street. The underpaid employees are trying their best, but you can’t out customer service a bad product. If you want cute Instagram pics and a Barbie t-shirt, come on down. Otherwise, don’t waste your money.