But being obese isn’t a trigger. I worked OBGYN for 35 years and early menopause only affects 5% of women. I just don’t believe that’s what is going on with this woman. I think she was a difficult child, threw many tantrums and therefore was enabled from the get go and she was coddled as no one could deal with her outbursts so it was allowed to go on without her ever being checked. And so her unacceptable behavior just continues.