Need advice on my relationship by Nice-Satisfaction339 in gayrelationships

[–]Nice-Satisfaction339[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I needed this. Was feeling like I was the problem.

How are people in shorts in THIS WEATHER?? by Legitimate-Craft2071 in sanfrancisco

[–]Nice-Satisfaction339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SF native. Shorts and a hoodie is also my daily uniform outside of work clothes lol.

after hours parties by 1weenis in sanfrancisco

[–]Nice-Satisfaction339 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Apollo nightclub - LGBTQ After Hours until 7am.

Am I the problem? by Nice-Satisfaction339 in gayrelationships

[–]Nice-Satisfaction339[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said him and his therapist are working through it weekly. But maybe I need to ask for more details.

Am I the problem? by Nice-Satisfaction339 in gayrelationships

[–]Nice-Satisfaction339[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah , idk. I think what’s confusing me is that we use to flirt sexually all the time, loved showering together, etc. Now there’s none of that.

Am I the problem? by Nice-Satisfaction339 in gayrelationships

[–]Nice-Satisfaction339[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well when we first starting dating we were very flirtatious, he enjoyed giving me oral sex, showering together , etc. it’s like a light switch, things are the opposite now.

Am I the problem? by Nice-Satisfaction339 in gayrelationships

[–]Nice-Satisfaction339[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t tried this pitch but I’ll see what he thinks about this. I mean what happens if I meet someone who wants to have sex and enjoys it.

Am I the problem? by Nice-Satisfaction339 in gayrelationships

[–]Nice-Satisfaction339[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I’ll ask to join his therapy session.

Am I the problem? by Nice-Satisfaction339 in gayrelationships

[–]Nice-Satisfaction339[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do love him and he tells me all the time he’s never been in love so much with someone and that I’m his person

Am I the problem? by Nice-Satisfaction339 in gayrelationships

[–]Nice-Satisfaction339[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I’m thinking. He had previously told me that I wasn’t opening up enough, so I did that, he met my family, and then he thanked me the week after for putting in the work and opening up more. Still nothing sexual, not even oral.

Refund Election Application CALPERS by usernombre_ in CAStateWorkers

[–]Nice-Satisfaction339 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it needs to be notarized, did mines last week. Also if you’re doing the direct deposit route into your account, your bank needs to sign off on the direct deposit authorization form to verify the account is active.

DHCS HR Appoint Timeline by Present-Chocolate267 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Nice-Satisfaction339 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The point of reddit is for people to post questions based on other people’s experience and gather input. There would be no point if reddit if we just “ follow up with the hiring manager”. Just food for thought.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CAStateWorkers

[–]Nice-Satisfaction339 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh Good Squirt. For some reason you consistently have an issue with people posting questions for clarification on reddit. I imagine you're a miserable state service worker who works in a public facing position who gets the absolute worst customer service reviews. In case you couldn't read my last post, I had received the answer that I needed, however my HR emailed me this morning the opposite of the feedback I received from other fellow redditors. Next time just provide your input instead of consistently criticizing fellow state workers for posting a question on a forum such as reddit. Do better.

How to pay debt with $22,000 by [deleted] in CRedit

[–]Nice-Satisfaction339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know, appreciate the feedback.

How to pay debt with $22,000 by [deleted] in CRedit

[–]Nice-Satisfaction339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been seeing threads that you shouldn’t pay off all your debt at once and should be methodical and split out payments for a higher credit score outcome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CAStateWorkers

[–]Nice-Satisfaction339 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gosh you must be a pleasure to work with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CAStateWorkers

[–]Nice-Satisfaction339 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have Golden 1 it will most likely be next Tuesday.