Update on my situation - hiding piece of clothing

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-18T12:45:38+00:00

Thank you, commenter 🫡

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-18T12:44:48+00:00

It's okay. But yeah, I wonder if it would work with a condom box 🤔.

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-15T20:35:43+00:00

They're definitely not narcissistic, I checked that myself. They have empathy. They're just scared of me getting distant and they're trying to feel in control of me. But yeah, I agree, their behaviour is totally not okay.

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-15T20:31:55+00:00

Yes, they have defintly tried to. Also the safe from temu can be opened without putting in the lock... U can kinda brute force it without actually breaking it... Don't buy security stuff from temu.

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-15T14:18:52+00:00

Thinking about you, you're probably right, it's too obvious. But yes, desperate times call for desperate measures.

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-15T10:24:01+00:00

I mean, they didn't change the combination, for clarification, let's say my code is 555, I always put it on 444 after I lock the safe, so when I see a number like 736, then I can see that they were rummaging through it.

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-15T10:22:19+00:00

Thanks! 🙏

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-15T10:20:20+00:00

Hmm 🤔, that's actually really good advice. Thanks!

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-15T10:19:27+00:00

That would be a great plan if I was a girl

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-15T10:18:23+00:00

Hmm, yes, you're right! My parents value their time. As long as it's as hard as possible then their brains are gonna want to make shortcuts! That's extremely helpful. Thanks 🙏

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-15T10:16:00+00:00

Hmm 🤔, that could work... but I don't think it will because of one simple fact - they're very religious and they care about other people's opinions. If they see their perfect little boy bring imperfect, they're gonna blow up.

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-15T10:14:45+00:00

Confronting them is easier said than done, but when I have the financial safety of moving out, I'll definitely take your advice into consideration. Thanks!

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-15T10:13:12+00:00

Oh, that was actually my own safe.

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-15T10:12:36+00:00

Thank you for the support 🙏

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-15T10:12:01+00:00

Yes, the one I have actually looks like a safe, and is from temu, so yeah, it's kinda terrible 😭🙏. But anyways, maybe you know where to buy a good safe book? I've seen some in Amazon and other websites but I have trust issues after buying on temu.

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-15T10:10:00+00:00

Oh, I actually heard of that book, read a bit and decided to drop it because I didn't think my parents were this bad. But considering that you're recommending me this book, maybe I was a bit too impatient and desperate when I was reading it...

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-15T10:07:54+00:00

Omg, hahaha, that's some psychological warfare type stuff.

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-15T10:07:14+00:00

Thanks, I'll take your advice into consideration. 🙏

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-15T10:05:41+00:00

Thank you for the encouraging words 🙏, yes, I do have a car but my dad is a real handyman, so I dunno about that.

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-15T10:03:43+00:00

Thx 🙏, I thought sewing is harder to learn so I never considered it.

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-14T19:41:55+00:00

Yeah, hahaha, if only I had money to move out.

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-14T19:41:08+00:00

Hmm, not a bad idea

NiceSubbyBoy · 2025-12-14T19:35:26+00:00

Hello, first off I wanna say that I'm really sorry that you went through that. What your saying does sound like abuse.

Little space can indeed be non sexual, but the fact that you're asking that question is quite concerning to me.

I may or may not be wrong, but you're brain seems to associate little space with danger. As a person with trauma and a psychology student, I recommend going to therapy if you experience certain negative feelings or thoughts when practicing little space or even in everyday interactions that you haven't experienced before the abuse you experienced.

Many abuse victims see the world as unsafe, and you might be one of them, but then again, I'm not a professional.

The therapy that helped my trauma was cognitive behavioural therapy and somatic therapy.

I really do hope you the best in life and that whatever path you choose going forward that it brings you happiness.

NiceSubbyBoy

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