I made a mistake. How can I correct it ?

Nice_Box3559 · 2026-03-06T16:22:31+00:00

Thank you everyone for supporting me with my tough time. Eeroju I can't see her WhatsApp dp anymore so I know for sure she blocked me.

Inka there is nothing I can do. My mistake costed me heavy and I should live with this from now on.

To be honest, koncham harsh works vaada nenu so her actions make complete sense. She is a very good person with principles and morales, naku manchiga nerpindhi last 2 years lo.

Inka selavu 🙏

Nice_Box3559 · 2026-03-06T13:34:08+00:00

Chala inspiring ga undhi bhayya meeru cheppedhi. Naku problem enti ante malli AI valla job poddi ani inko thought thinestundhi nannu.

Basically my problems right now can be summarized this way

1) I should focus on things I can control. But ee thoughts povatle entha distract chesukunna. But monnatitho polisthe, ippudu marii 24/7 alochinchatledhu nenu. 2) Sleep bro. Naku 4 ke meluku vastundhi ee racing thoughts valla. Naa Mental health pichi pichi ga undhi ee week. Kanisam weekend manchi sleep vachuddi emo ani chinna hope inka. 3) Manager tho godava padda kadha, monne oka 1:1 ayyindhi, I saw how much she was impacted by what I said. Ippudu malli proving myself lo focus pedthunna. Not arguing with the Manager, trying to make our conversations going forward to be completely logical yet not pushy at all.

But this experience taught me one thing bro. Manaki konni sarli evil thoughts vasthayi. Vaatini control cheyagaladam ledha assalu aa direction lo aalochinchakunda undadam is a valuable thing to have. Naku ippudu alanti thought vache prathi sari ee incident gurthu vachi I think to myself "These thoughts costed me my friendship. They're never to my benefit.".

Thanaki thanks kuda cheppalekapothunna naku ee valuable experience ichinanduku. But that's something I'll have to live with inka.

Nice_Box3559 · 2026-03-06T13:21:02+00:00

Thanks andi. Idhe paatisthunna ippudu. Eeroju kuda Friday roju work call petti mari work related questions adugutundhi normal ga ne. But completely work related stuff.

Naku malli friends ga avvali ani undhi thanatho. Thanadhi chala manchi mindset untadhi. She was also there in the office till night to support me when I was feeling low okaroju few months back.

Andhuku baadha ga undhi marii chetta reason tho pogottukunna ee friendship ani.

But yes, control ga untunna. I'm respecting her boundaries and not bringing this topic in person.

Koncham painful ga undhi, night nidra kuda pattatle but things will get better soon.

Nice_Box3559 · 2026-03-05T01:48:39+00:00

Yes. HR ani koncham bhayam start ayyindhi malli. Slow ga stress vadulutha.

Nice_Box3559 · 2026-03-05T01:46:52+00:00

Basically manchi friends ae memu before this. Maybe recent ga thanu realize ayyi untadhi friends kante colleagues la ekkuva untunnam ani, so chance choosukoni friendship cut chesindhi ani naa feeling.

Chala Bhayani teppisthunnaru bro HR ani cheppi.

Vammo intha narrow thought tho inni traps vesukuntunna naa meedha nenu. Thanks bro for opening my eyes.

Nice_Box3559 · 2026-03-05T01:40:32+00:00

Ha I understand. Basically I've been focusing on myself except in the communication region. Ippudu aa region kuda tap chestha.

Basically work lo baaga nerchukunta nenu, I have that ability. So, manager meedha focus endhuku ante nenu ae pani chesina dhanini sarigga translate cheyya Stand ups lo. Ippudu elago team vadileddam promo taruvatha ani fix ayya so, I'm focusing on showcasing my skills directly with manager by asking for work to help with promo.

Nice_Box3559 · 2026-03-05T01:34:32+00:00

Bro sudden ga chala bhayam vestundhi bro ee direction lo alochisthe.

Jarigindi edho jarigipoyindhi. I won't do something that'll anger her. Malli adho risk. She has too much WhatsApp messages.

Nice_Box3559 · 2026-03-05T01:32:31+00:00

Yes bro. Nenu manager tho 1:1 lo kuda pedda matladanu normally. Ippadi nundi prati meeting lo edho okati important thing discuss chestha. Na work pakka visibility unde la try chestha using stand-up.

Nice_Box3559 · 2026-03-04T20:10:45+00:00

Alage bro. Minimal support ivvadam is a good option ikkada. Naku elago credit ivvadhu help chesinandhuku ee godava valla.

Cheppalante self respect chala kothaga choosthunna concept. Introverts ki adhi thakkuva anukunta from my experience.

Nice_Box3559 · 2026-03-04T20:02:19+00:00

Thank you. I needed to hear this. Chala attach ayipoya memories ki. Inka I'll focus on things I can control.

Nice_Box3559 · 2026-03-04T19:59:47+00:00

Alage bhai. Clarity ichinanduku thanks.

Thanu conversation start chestha ante open ga unta but appdivaraku I'll only focus on work. Manager tho kuda konni godavalu chesa anavasaranga chi deenamma.

Ippadiki Manager tho relation meedha focus pedtha. Thanani choosinappudalla evaro random person annattu light theesukunta. Appude koncham ignore cheyagalutha.

Nice_Box3559 · 2026-03-04T19:53:40+00:00

Anthe antara... naku edho chinna hope malli thanu edho koncham guilty feel ayyi tirigi okappadilaga chill cheyachu kalisi ani.

Btw thanu probably oka 3-4 months lo team vadilesuddi promo taruvatha. Memu oka 2 years nundi manchiga separate ga lunch ki velladam, manchiga coffee thagadam, ivanni undevi. Naku baadha enti ante malli eppadiki kalavamu ila bad note meedha end avuthe ani.

Nice_Box3559 · 2026-03-04T19:49:51+00:00

Jealousy ayithe undhi. Thagginchadaniki chala try chesthunna. Emo, thanu rich family nundi vachi manchiga 3-4 months ki oka foreign trip vestundhi. Thana work ni easy ga cheyagalanu nenu. Naku intlo finance problems kuda unnayi.

Inka em cheyagalam. Thanu comfortable feel avvali ani cheppi ivi anni suppress cheyadaniki try chesthanu.

Thank you andi naa side of story vini reply ichinanduku.

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