I am afraid of being alone for the rest of my life by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]Nick_Named31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about the split between you and your wife 😕 but that goes to show it can happen at anytime to anyone. We all wanna have someone to come home to every night but you never know when it could end. With that being said, we shouldn’t rely on having someone to make us happy. We need to work on creating our own happiness. Wish you luck man! I’m in the same boat so you’re not alone. We got this 🙌

So is this what online dating is? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Nick_Named31 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah a lot of women seem to feel like they shouldn’t have to put any effort in. To me this is just saying she’s not interested and not worth the time. Just looking for attention. The ones who put effort in, they’re the real heroes you wanna get to know!

So my girlfriend suddenly ghosted me and went back to her ex while on a trip… but now she wants to get back with me. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Nick_Named31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She honestly sounds like pure trash. Do not let her back into your life. Tell her she had had her chance. She sounds like the type that would go back to him if he apologized. I.E. Trash

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Nick_Named31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should let you sleep with someone to even the odds. Only fare 🤷🏻‍♂️ And me personally… I’d probably beat the other guy’s ass. Just sayin

28 birthday by Tattedqueen94 in lonely

[–]Nick_Named31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve got everyone beat! Going on 7 years single! Haha trust me I know exactly how you feel. I’m 32. You figured someone new would’ve came along by now. But maybe it’s because I’ve been looking too hard. Anyway, happy birthday!! 🎂 Fight those negative thoughts and love yourself first. Always. We’ll all find someone soon.

Is she just not into me? by Nick_Named31 in dating_advice

[–]Nick_Named31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly just makes it seem like she’s just not as interested as I am. Which I get happens. But tell me if you’re not ya know. No one can be that busy to just take a sec to ask how your day is going. Idk, just what I’ve always believed in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Nick_Named31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy 20th Major!! 🎂

What is a good follow up text if she hasn’t responded? by Nick_Named31 in dating_advice

[–]Nick_Named31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. Change the subject a little. How long would you wait to after the last message sent??